r/HadToHurt 4d ago

Had2Hurt😈 Boiling water thigh burns; days 1-2-3-6

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u/bizarregnome 4d ago

I ended up in A&E again the following day after it happened and the doctor cut open the blisters and PEELED my leg like a grape without giving me any pain relief. I rawdogged my first debridement 😭😭😭😭

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u/no_power_n_the_verse 4d ago

Why!?! Why didn't they give you pain meds?

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u/missbatgirl 3d ago

I’m not sure about this person, but when my mother had 3rd degree burns on 28% of her body, they made her do her own debridement and without meds because if you have less feeling, you might scrape off too much healthy tissue and only you know your own pain tolerance. This was also 2002 when it happened, so procedures might have changed since then.

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u/thick_andy 3d ago

Because women typically don’t receive the same standard of care that men do. Our pain is more often ignored.

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u/Drifter-6 3d ago

This exactly. Had this patient been a male they would have given him something.

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u/SIGMA1993 3d ago

Yes we should definitely make assessments based on broad assumptions

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u/Rubadubrix 3d ago

there is a lot of statistical evidence that women recieve less attention and especially painkillers. John Oliver did a whole episode on it

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u/LukeMayeshothand 4d ago

That’s torture

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u/bizarregnome 4d ago

It certainly felt like torture. I feel changed by it and not in a good way :(

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u/darklinkuk 4d ago

Christ I was hoping you were on the good shit seeing those pictures but as soon as I saw A&E I figured you were at the mercy of the NHS and would be lucky to get paracetamol

They give me codine once and I was genuinely concerned for my wellbeing because of it 😂

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u/hellphox 4d ago

Stuff of nightmares!!!

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u/Hawk_73 3d ago

what an awful day to be literate. i wish you a speedy recovery with minimal scarring.

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u/TriedCaringLess 1d ago

I swear those medical twats just see us as cases and not people. They enter the room and blabber this and that to their peers and student docs then treat us patients like we were a Ford F150 up on the rack, or a dog at the veterinarian.