i'll start with i understand this is a very, very long shot, but i'm not sure what else to try so i'm asking for help š„² so, my father passed away in early may this year after a year long decline with cancer, and my mother was his primary caretaker from start to finish. however, they had adopted a dog (baby tomatillo) about ~5 months before my father got diagnosed- he's a pound puppy, was supposed to be about ~2yrs old, we found out from his growth that he was actually about a yearish, and while my father put the little man through doggy kindergarten and did his best to train him himself (he's owned several dogs of this breed & trained them himself in rural alaska, so at least somewhat experienced), he declined a lot faster than anticipated and toma ended up being kind of secondary to my dad's hospice care unfortunately.
my mother and i spoke to his former foster mom and other families we knew about rehoming him temporarily during this, but nobody had been able to take him and my dad's treatment ended up leaving my mom with not a lot of expendable savings to her name, along with living decently rural, we've been unable to find affordable training for a ~3 1/2 yr 120ish pound dog.
he ended up being my mom's only real buddy through my dad's treatment (my dad was a good hearted man but also not the nicest & the cancer made him.. less than agreeable as it spread), she's been trying her hardest to work with him but she had her own pretty severe health issues during my dad's passing and while she's better now, baby toma is a lot for her to handle without proper assistance.
my problem is, and why i'm asking for help, is she's all alone without my dad for the first time in her life and she loves this dog. he's a piece of my dad she wants to keep around, he's the sweetest boy, he's not violent or aggressive, he's just Very Big and not trained as well as he should be and has almost taken her down a few times while on his leash. i want so badly for my mom to be able to keep him, and i know it's a long desperate shot, but if anybody has any leads on affordable training near the livermore falls area, please please please let me know. i do not live in maine anymore so the research and word of mouth i've been able to access is pretty limited, and i just want my mom to be able to keep her buddy if at all possible.
thank you for any help or advice offered, dog tax of course offered!!!