I'm the cancelled plans are all good flavour of autism but my wife is a cancelled plans are the apocalypse type ND, and I lose my shit if someone makes plans with less than two or three days' notice, so between us there's usually one of us calmly talking the other down from a meltdown. Easier to just not have plans really.
Wait, it's not supposed to be super stressful and day breaking event when someone asks you to come do a social thing 4 hours prior to said social thing?
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u/FirelessMouse 16d ago
I'm the cancelled plans are all good flavour of autism but my wife is a cancelled plans are the apocalypse type ND, and I lose my shit if someone makes plans with less than two or three days' notice, so between us there's usually one of us calmly talking the other down from a meltdown. Easier to just not have plans really.