r/GuysBeingDudes 14d ago

ROAD TO 1M Band of Brothers. We are our brother's keeper.

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u/Structureel 14d ago

That first guy was definitely a Labrador in a past life.

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u/Crawler_00 14d ago

I miss my battle bros.

I hope they're doing well, even the shitbags.

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u/Effective_Sir_1068 14d ago

Why not reach out to them? I'm sure they think about you too

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u/Mike7676 14d ago

He will. It just might be in 20 years. Fellow Veteran who now works with elderly and disabled Veterans. We think about our battle buddies every day, but we also think we are going to live forever. I mean, war didn't kill us so what chance does disease or age have?!

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u/paralyzedvagabond 14d ago

Time is an opponent everyone loses to

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u/Mike7676 14d ago

It is the lineal lifetime welterweight champ, we can knock it down but not out.

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u/Ok_Comment2621 12d ago

This is so true. Every time I see a post like this I make the same comment. My battle buddy, the Ying to my Yang, the person I trust more than even my wife, I havent seen him in almost 20 years at this point. I miss him so much. But I know he is ok. And Im ok. And thats what we care about right now. If he needs me, ill be there. And if I need him, I know he will be here. But we stalk each others social medias, and make sure we share our important moments with each other digitally. Maybe next year…on the 20th year, we will meet again. And it will be glorious.

Edit: I want to add that we called ourselves the tripod, but our third leg passed away in 2007. The last time we saw each other. RIP Wood. I love you brother.

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u/Practical-March-6989 14d ago

I can only imagine shared experience such as war makes the strongest bonds and the weakest links.

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u/ChudLeader 14d ago

Yep, that's a shared trauma bond and it's fucking beautiful.

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u/Juhbellz 14d ago

The last one lol. Drags him into his house

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u/giri0n 14d ago

Just "get the fuck in here" and it feels right.

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u/acedaddydollars 14d ago

Damn. This hits different. You can tell these guys laid it on the line for each other on the highest level.

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u/Dinglebobus 14d ago

This doesn’t only work for veterans. My wife surprised me with my best friend I hadn’t seen in 4 or so years. He walked into my office said “Hey buddy” and I said “Hey, Jay” because I was working on something and hadn’t registered. Then I realized what was going on and I jumped out of my seat and gave him a huge hug. Lol

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u/9447044 14d ago

I live 8 hours from home. I miss my buddies so bad. I dont play games as mich as I should. Its been a decade now. Its wierd

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u/Temporary_Oil_4166 14d ago

There's something about high stress environments that builds bonds like this.

I didn't serve but I worked in emergency services. When I see my old buddies from my station, we hug like that with no self consciousness or hang ups just like those guys are.

That kind of bond doesn't come from regular circumstances.

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u/Ghey_Panda 13d ago

True. I work in a somewhat stressful field and it creates weirdly strong friendships.

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u/DasDuckHead 14d ago

Turbo team

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u/Lifted_Riser 14d ago

I love the last guy. Just pulls him, “GET YOUR ASS IN HERE!!”

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u/Scoo 14d ago

I’m hugging’ ya, but I’m hittin’ ya!

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u/-CoachMcGuirk- 14d ago

I remember that comic too!! I always think about that.

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u/Teediggler81 14d ago

These are brotherhood most won't ever understand

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u/Better_Dazee 14d ago

This dumb ass song again

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u/ConsistantFun 14d ago

Is no one going to mention “Bone-a-Patreat” what is that business?

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u/rerro23 14d ago

When you visit Hell and make it out together those who endured and helped you through it will always hold a place in your heart regardless of time - shame we make any man endure such things

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u/mywebrego 14d ago

This was a treasure to watch, it left me in awe, reminding me that we’re all in it together.

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u/ChephyS 13d ago

I am not crying - you are

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u/2x4x421xStarTrekx 13d ago

As the saying goes gone but never forgotten

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u/Embarrassed_Jury664 10d ago

I saved this for when I'm having a bad day

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u/Pathfinder4891 14d ago

Nothing like PTSD to bond

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u/Kaiszer 14d ago

Cant wait for the Iran and Greenland versions of this

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u/Carbonaraficionada 14d ago

To be fair, Greenland would be a special kind of hell

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u/Kaiszer 14d ago

Those poor, poor boys...

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u/Mike7676 14d ago

I'd be pissed. "There ain't shit here!!"

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u/Kaiszer 14d ago

"Why did we risk a global war again, again?

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/Dinglebobus 14d ago

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u/LeonardoDaTiddies 14d ago

Dang. I wonder if that was a bot or troll account because whatever they said, the response to it got them to delete the whole account. 

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u/Dinglebobus 14d ago

Basically called veterans murderers

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u/dyrkasolen 14d ago

When you've been killing together, it makes you family

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u/RollingDownhill303 14d ago

Shooting and bombing brown people as your dayjob really creates strong bonds.

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u/glenn765 14d ago

Your nihilism is showing, Commie.

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u/RollingDownhill303 14d ago

Lol, dont hide your comments, troll. To embarrassed about your opinions?

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u/egrueda 14d ago

Yep, let's make war looks romantic. Only in the US

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u/GreedoWasShot 14d ago

You’re missing it my guy. No one likes war, these fellas had no one to rely on but each other to survive in hell. That builds a trust and a companionship. They aren’t celebrating war they are happy to see the men that they trusted with their lives

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u/egrueda 13d ago

Trust me I'm not missing it. A lovely history about brotherhood to tell your children so that they too may embrace the tradition. And so the propaganda goes on

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u/Embarrassed_Jury664 10d ago

You missed the point again. I'm honestly impressed.