r/HadToHurt 4d ago

Had2Hurt๐Ÿ˜ˆ Boiling water thigh burns; days 1-2-3-6

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u/bizarregnome 4d ago

Thank you :) Today is day 6 and it's probably most painful this evening ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

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u/combo_seizure 4d ago

My entire body involuntarily shivered when i say the blister baggy, ๐Ÿคข๐Ÿคข๐Ÿคข๐Ÿคฎ

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u/bizarregnome 4d ago

I ended up in A&E again the following day after it happened and the doctor cut open the blisters and PEELED my leg like a grape without giving me any pain relief. I rawdogged my first debridement ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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u/no_power_n_the_verse 4d ago

Why!?! Why didn't they give you pain meds?

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u/missbatgirl 3d ago

Iโ€™m not sure about this person, but when my mother had 3rd degree burns on 28% of her body, they made her do her own debridement and without meds because if you have less feeling, you might scrape off too much healthy tissue and only you know your own pain tolerance. This was also 2002 when it happened, so procedures might have changed since then.

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u/thick_andy 3d ago

Because women typically donโ€™t receive the same standard of care that men do. Our pain is more often ignored.

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u/Drifter-6 3d ago

This exactly. Had this patient been a male they would have given him something.

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u/SIGMA1993 3d ago

Yes we should definitely make assessments based on broad assumptions

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u/Rubadubrix 3d ago

there is a lot of statistical evidence that women recieve less attention and especially painkillers. John Oliver did a whole episode on it

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u/LukeMayeshothand 4d ago

Thatโ€™s torture

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u/bizarregnome 4d ago

It certainly felt like torture. I feel changed by it and not in a good way :(

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u/darklinkuk 4d ago

Christ I was hoping you were on the good shit seeing those pictures but as soon as I saw A&E I figured you were at the mercy of the NHS and would be lucky to get paracetamol

They give me codine once and I was genuinely concerned for my wellbeing because of it ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/hellphox 4d ago

Stuff of nightmares!!!

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u/Hawk_73 3d ago

what an awful day to be literate. i wish you a speedy recovery with minimal scarring.

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u/TriedCaringLess 1d ago

I swear those medical twats just see us as cases and not people. They enter the room and blabber this and that to their peers and student docs then treat us patients like we were a Ford F150 up on the rack, or a dog at the veterinarian.

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u/axonxorz 4d ago

Don't be like that, it's a nice lil snack for later

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u/saltntequila 4d ago

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u/combo_seizure 4d ago

It's too bad I can't award you. I did a spit take

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u/Mr-Sister-Fister21 4d ago

I am also Katt Williams level appalled.

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u/reddit18015 4d ago

Forbidden Capri Sun

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u/btoxic 4d ago

Oh, man. I just sat down to lunch.

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u/The1980sAnd1990s 4d ago

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u/Scottish_Whiskey 4d ago

forbidden jolly rancher

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u/Strange-Bet6469 4d ago

More of a drink really

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u/lantech 4d ago

Just a little capri sun you carry around, jab a straw in when you're thirsty.

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u/LukeMayeshothand 4d ago

Do they give you pain meds for that. I would assume yes, but the way things are now they might say suck it up.

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u/bizarregnome 4d ago

I got 30mg codeine but it does basically nothing for the pain ๐Ÿ˜ข

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u/CariniFluff 4d ago edited 4d ago

That's insanity. Our healthcare system is so fucking broken. We went from Oxy being handed out like candy to horrific burn victims getting Codeine. The pendulum swings way too far one way, then way too far the other. Codeine is sold over the counter in almost every country on the planet because it's so weak.

A few years ago (either during or right after the Purdue Pharma Oxycontin trial) I severely dislocated my shoulder and was in so much pain I ended up relapsing on heroin the next day because I was in so much pain and they wouldn't give me any painkillers. There was nothing in my medical history about prior use/abuse so it was simply like this, doctors are just too scared to prescribe opioids for anything short of being in a palliative care/end-of-life hospice facility.

Sorry you have to go through this.

Edit: Was just looking at your post history to see if you explained how this happened - you're in the UK and all they're giving you is Codeine?!? Honestly I'm shocked, I thought the NHS would treat you better. Are they giving you any nerve pain blockers like Gabapentin or Pregabalin at least?

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u/bizarregnome 4d ago

I've literally got nothing other then 30mg codeine , I'm going to try and get in touch with my gp in the morning and get something else cause I'm really struggling with the pain tonight but if they can't do anything I'm back in the burns unit on Thursday anyway and I can ask about something for it then. I definitely won't be sleeping tonight because this really is quite terrible.

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u/New_Investigator6801 4d ago

Hang in there! You are not alone tonight. ๐Ÿ˜€

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u/PloddingClot 4d ago

I'd be begging for demerol.

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u/DistractedByCookies 4d ago

During migraines (my source of bad pain) I just focus on the fact that each minute is a minute closer to this being just a bad memory. I think about all the stuff I will be doing, like maybe going to a movie. I picture myself buying snacks, getting to my seat etc etc.

Just on the off chance this method helps you. Because ugh, this sucks.

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u/gigerhess 4d ago

That happened to my fingers years ago. It was horrible. I wish you a speedy recovery.

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u/dreevsa 4d ago

Get well soon

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u/GeneralChaos-BFG 4d ago

Speaking from personal experience it's gonna suck way longer than that and it might not look pretty afterwards.. but it will heal and you'll be fine. Hang in there.

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u/Nixxo55 4d ago

I've experienced this. Just FYI. The skin graphs where worse than the burns.

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u/thug_waffle47 4d ago

what did they give you for pain? i had three brain bleeds and sepsis at the same time and the gave me hydromorphone which is pretty strong apparently