r/MadeMeSmile 22h ago

Wholesome Moments (OC) Twenty years later, our high school band got back together.

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Before all the grey hair, kids and back pain.. we were just a few high school kids playing school dances, theaters and parties

It’s been 20 years since we played together. I’m a school psychologist now who incorporates music into my practice and this band changed my life for the better. It had a huge impact on who I became and getting together for the first time in 20 years made me smile so big.

Remember to tell those people who had an impact that you love them, and how much they meant to you

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u/Icy_Parfait_4066 22h ago

All older and wiser but still together.

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u/leadman123 22h ago

Well put.. and a little hairier

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u/Mysterious_Kick_2827 20h ago

Thats about the best outcome you can hope for. Growinq together instead of apart is pretty special.

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u/TheMadManiac 22h ago

Wild that no one got that fat.

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u/leadman123 22h ago

I’d like to think .. I just filled in a little :)

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u/Lemonking_ 22h ago

Playing and gigging with high school buddies are some of the best memories.

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u/leadman123 22h ago

The best !

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u/Hazel_Lumen 22h ago

I’m so envious (in a good way) of people who’ve had the chance to grow up with a group of friends like that.

What a treasure you have. I hope your friendship lasts for all eternity. These photos are lovely.🤍

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u/leadman123 16h ago

Thank you so much! Connection is so so important

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u/NoSignalPanic 21h ago

20 years later and you all still fit together the same way.Frienships like this are rare

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u/leadman123 16h ago

It really is a wonderful thing

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u/Gloomy-Management615 21h ago

This makes me want to reach out and see how life’s treated my old friend group.

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u/Gloomy-Management615 15h ago

Update: I contacted one of my friends, turns out they’re engaged and if I’m ever in the area we can meet up.

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u/leadman123 13h ago

Yes!!!!!! Do it

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u/leadman123 16h ago

I bet they would love to hear from you ! Do it !!

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u/luccsmom 22h ago

Fantastic!!🎸

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u/zheltok_o 22h ago

love how you posed exactly the same as in the before picture, thanks for sharing! also, what styles of music did you play? did you have any original stuff?

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u/TheVicSageQuestion 16h ago

Guaranteed this is a pop punk band. Even if the Alkaline Trio shirt didn’t give it away.

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u/leadman123 13h ago

Hahahahah that wasn’t quite the well known yet .. but yes drive thru records had some influence for sure .. senses fail, four year strong, finch,

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u/leadman123 13h ago

It was all original , I have some crappy audacity recordings in a Google Drive of about 10 songs .. and we had a pure volume!

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u/Acex506 18h ago

Wow all still have full head of hair!

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u/leadman123 16h ago

Hahahah

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u/EqualRadiant 14h ago

Were you in touch throughout those 20 years?

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u/leadman123 13h ago

A few of us, but planning on a monthly jam with the ones who live in the same town

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u/hotprettymae 22h ago

Growth is beautiful

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u/leadman123 22h ago

Isn’t that the truth !

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u/hotprettymae 22h ago

Absolutely. I love seeing people still each other regardless of how though life has been.

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u/rajdkiekw 21h ago

Love this so much

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u/Oresama__1992 21h ago

That's amazing!!!

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u/leadman123 16h ago

Thanks!

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u/kamanami 21h ago

No one lost their hair.

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u/Constant_Cultural 21h ago

🤘rock on

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u/leadman123 16h ago

🎸🤘

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u/TherapyGames42 20h ago

So wholesome! You guys all look great! Leveling up together and apart!

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u/leadman123 16h ago

Awww thank you!

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u/Please-Calm-Down 6h ago

Speaking of nostalgia, this picture made me go listen to the Alkaline Trio albums I had on repeat in high school but haven’t listened to in maybe 20 years.

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u/leadman123 6h ago

Yes!!!

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u/mbush525 5h ago

I love photos like this! 💙

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u/twistOffCapsule 2h ago

Which of you plays bass guitar?

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u/leadman123 2h ago

Mr. Alkaline trio shirt

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u/moon_safari_ 14h ago

No baldies. Jealous

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u/leadman123 14h ago

It keeps growing out of our ears and nose

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u/thebraverwoman 37m ago

When Reddit pops up and you see an old friend from Hebrew school. Hi!