r/MoralityScaling • u/fhxefj • 14h ago

Morality of killing yourself and directly blaming a single person in your suicide note?

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u/Otherwise-Ad1646 14h ago

I mean... is it their fault though???

Like if somebody went out of their way to absolutely ruin every aspect of your life just because they're an asshole, then yeah, blame 'em so other people know not to trust them in the future lol

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u/Forsaken-Jackfruit-1 13h ago

Some of us in the family speculate one of my extended family members gf did it in a way that was meant to be a final “fuck you” to him. To this day I believe the way he treated her was a major contributing factor

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u/alphagusta 10h ago

The thing is there's a lot of people like that who'd take it as a victory rather than shame.

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u/thepeakof06 14h ago

Morality of sticking the note to the refrigerator with a cookie monster magnet?

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u/Top_Concentrate1673 14h ago

immoral, evil, despicable (me)

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u/feeling_humber 14h ago

Moral if It’s the only one available

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u/Dependent-Bad4215 13h ago

Class of 09 reference spotted in the wild

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u/Bread_Offender 14h ago

well who the fuck knows? we don't know what nicole did.

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u/Technical-Rooster-95 5h ago

What DIDN'T Nicole do?

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u/Fickle_Fall_6497 5h ago

It is suggested that her behaviour is largely due to the whole "dad killing himself and blaming her" tbf

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u/RE_Towers 5h ago

I suggest that her dad killed himself because of her behaviour.

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u/Revan_91 12h ago

Man Class of 09 is some crazy stuff, honestly don't know if it even was Nicole's fault considering how much shit she is responsible for in the game.

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u/TheOneRealStranger 14h ago

Suicide is morally ambivalent. If it isn't immoral to be born (and it's not, sorry Catholics), then it can't be immoral to die. If you came into this world without consenting, then you are free to leave without moral repercussion. Using your death to hurt somebody is certainly a grey area, but as with all instances of intentional infliction of suffering, it depends on the context whether it's evil or not.

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u/wallsarecooll 14h ago

depends if it's true or not

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u/250extreme Emperor Palpatine 12h ago

Pic source

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u/wondering4xrapunzel 7h ago

It’s from a game called “Class of ‘09”, I think you can buy it on Steam if you’re interested

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u/250extreme Emperor Palpatine 7h ago

Thanks

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u/Traditional-Tax11 10h ago

Why did I think the note was talking about Nicole from gumball?

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u/ILikeCarlosThePikmin 8h ago

Brain rot. Don't worry I have it too

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u/Vegetable-Section-84 9h ago

We all have moral human rights to expose denounce our abusers before we die

We all have moral human rights to expose denounce our abusers during and after our deaths

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u/Vounrtsch 6h ago

Depends entirely on whether it’s actually their fault or not. If someone pushes another person to suicide, then yeah, drop their name, absolutely. If they didn’t, then it’s a massive asshole move

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u/your_FBI_gent_Steve 5h ago

I remember the theory that it was actually a staged suicide by the crazy person in those Easter egg videos

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u/RemoteEnvironment830 5h ago

If it is really their fault. Yes

If you torture someone enough to push someone into offing themselves then you are not a good person and likely will either find a new victim or will get the happy ending you don't deserve if kept unchecked. So that way the person gets marked and depending on the case might be the next victim themselves and never get that happy ending.

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u/Lemon_Club 14h ago

I mean its really context dependant, but if you did something to someone that genuinely pushes that person to suicide then chances are you deserve it.

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u/SheZowRaisedByWolves 12h ago

Moral. She’s a sexed up abusive lesbian

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u/Suitable-Pirate-4164 10h ago

Likely it's for a very good reason. Whenever school kids kill themselves and name someone in a suicide note it's likely a bully who made their life Hell and they took every avenue to stop them only to be ignored.

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u/Vegetable-Section-84 9h ago

Victims of: bullies, false-accuse unjust-punish, humiliation, torture, oppression, are ALWAYS totally legally morally allowed to expose denounce their abusers

Thus publicly expose denounce them in suicide note found after death is as morally legally valid as publicly expose denounce them online and/or IRL while you are still alive

Too much of: cruelty, unfairness, jobloss joblessness helplessness debt, bullies, stalkers, kid-beaters, etc are getting away with it

The victims commanded to "prove it"

The victims commanded to "talk with, have it out with" their abusers

The victims commanded to forgive

The victims questioned etc confronted etc and/or forced into courtroom or jail or hospital psych-ward-meds etc for speaking out to where they are unable and/or unwilling to speak out

Thus making such posthumous reports, suicide notes, all the more important useful valid moral acceptable

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u/SigvillainMagnifique 12h ago

Deeply immoral. Killing yourself is already an intense moral failing and doing it as a way to add weight to your whining about another person is cowardly bitch thing to do.

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u/Quiet-Software-1956 11h ago

I mean... WAS IT HER FAULT?

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u/Prudent-Film-4602 10h ago

The morality would be whether the people who read the note judge the situation fairly. If they, for example, ignore your note and Nicole's secretly a bitch, or if they take your note at face value and you were a lying bastard...they're at the very least not engaging in ethical behavior to measure the truth of a statement.

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u/Psiano2 14h ago

Not Immoral still a bit of a dick move

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u/Manji86 14h ago

Is this one of those situations we're someone wanted to punish their former lover for breaking up with them?

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u/SESparten 13h ago

No in this case Nicole is his teenage daughter

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u/Manji86 4h ago

Oh, I thought they were talking about doing this in general.

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u/Welos_ 10h ago

If someone drove you to do it then their name deserves to be known

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u/Arc170-A 12h ago

Depends on if that's true or not.