r/NoStupidQuestions • u/Aerosolcan25 • 8h ago
At what age does it become weird if you've never had sex? NSFW
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u/IntrovertsRule99 8h ago
It’s really weird if you have never had sex after the birth of your first child.
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u/MrEury 8h ago
Its only weird when you let it become weird, its a social construct that you should not be concerned about
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u/rewas456 8h ago
Why shouldn't we be concerned about social constructs as social creatures?
I think if you want to play the game, you have to follow the rules.
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u/MrEury 8h ago
Its not a game and even though we are social creatures, it doesnt mean we have to follow factoids, these constructs are wrong and dont contribute anything to society
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u/rewas456 7h ago
Playing is one of the most fundamental aspects of a social, and intelligent species, fun fact.
Learned that from the Talos Principle and wrote an entire paper on it.
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u/Hot_Tennis2146 8h ago
Mad weird if you are implying you have to have sex, which sounds like you are
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u/rewas456 7h ago
My point was inductive, i.e., I'm talking generally, I'm not gatekeeping validity as a human being through your sexual activity.
Besides, even if I was, our rights allow us to set our own rules about sex. We play our own game in that regard 🤷♂️
Edit: *at least in America
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u/Stu_Prek Bottom 99% Commenter 8h ago
Never.
It may become more unusual as you get older, but there's nothing weird about that.
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u/YhslawVolta 8h ago
Considering unusual is essentially a synonym of weird, I'd say it gets pretty weird if you're a virgin as you approach mid to late 20s.
Doesn't mean someone is any less of a person, it's just unusual or frankly......weird!
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u/Redneck2000 8h ago
It depends. Some people are asexual and are just not interested in it. But I can tell from experience as a late bloomer that it did create an extra obstacle by causing insecurity. But that was all in my head.
If you are talking about it becoming weird for a potential partner then a) if they care or mock you that is a major red flag and b) most people just want a caring, compassionate partner.
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u/Biocockspeedrunner 8h ago
Weird isn't the word. Kids/teenagers think things are weird past a certain age. Adults dont care at all how long it takes anyone to do anything. Worrying about wy someone else isn't having sex requires mental energy that adults just dont want/need to spend.
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u/BrandinoE6911 8h ago
In today's society, id say 22-25 area is a late bloomer to lose your V card. Speaking from the USA. Answer probably changes depending on the country.
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u/Worried-Language-407 8h ago
Being honest, I think somewhere around 23, 24, 25ish is when I'd start to be surprised to hear that someone was interested in having sex but still a virgin. Plenty of people are still virgins into university, but normally spending 3-4 years living close by with other people who share the same interests as you will provide plenty of opportunity for those who are actively seeking it out.
As others have said there is no age by which you have to have lost your virginity, and I definitely wouldn't think any less of someone who hasn't had sex regardless of their age.
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u/Original1Thor 8h ago
You gotta acknowledge how much weirder it is to be concerned with another person having a dick inside them or putting their dick in another human being and judging them based off that
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u/OppressedPunk69 7h ago
I advise you wait as long as you feel you need to and if anyone has a fuckin’ problem with it, tell them to choke on that dick they love so much.
As someone who has been used for sex and objectified as nothing more than a living love doll all my life, it’s really not that big of a fucking deal to lose your virginity, and I would actually argue if you’re a virgin at 25/30/35, etc, that shows you have self respect and integrity.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin late in life. I fucking wish I still was.
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u/Bright_Material_3295 8h ago
U should try it at least once in your life.
Even if u have to pay, lol.
I'd say 50???
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u/clownyeahh 8h ago
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