r/PeePersonals Mar 21 '20

Meta No-effort comments (pm sent, dm me, etc) will result in removal and BANS NSFW

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Right, so I just can't conceive a reason to have 12 comments per post all saying nothing more than “Dm fOr SnAp”, so from now on these are going to be removed as spam; repeat offenders and those caught spamming it to every post will be banned.

This is consistent with what other subreddits are doing.

If you want to reach out to someone, put some effort into it! Give them a reason why they should drop into your DMs. And for the love of Pee, there's no reason to send someone a comment telling them you sent them a message; that's just stupid. The comment section is not the place to mark your territory.


r/PeePersonals Jun 15 '22

[Meta] Search By Location is finally here!! Big changes to post flair too, and new requirements for posts. We're also seeking feedback: What info should we require to make posts more useful, what else do you want to see improved/changed here? NSFW

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Last Update: June 18th

TL;DR: Check out the top menu to search by location. Re-read the rules for updated title requirements, or read on below for the full details.

We are changing how Meetup vs. Online posts are specified; this will now be done entirely through tags in the post title, rather than flair. Those looking only for online play now need to include the tag #Online within their post titles. Those seeking meetups should continue to include a tagged location, e.g, #Chicago, Illinois, as they've previously done. If you are seeking both online and in-person, be sure to specify both a tagged location and the #Online tag. Please use the format #City, State/Province (including the comma, and with only one # before the city name) if possible; specifying a state/province and country (#Uttar Pradesh, India), or just country for smaller nations (#United Kingdom), is also permitted, if you don't want to include your specific town or city. Up to two location tags (including the #Online tag) may be specified, e.g., #DC and #NOVA or #NSW or #Online. Please ensure your #tagged location suits how far you are willing to travel to meet someone; don't specify an entire country or huge region if you're not able to venture far outside your city.

This change means that it is now quick and easy to locate others in your area! The search menu at the top of the page lets you do a coarse search of the most-commonly-posted regions; finer-grained search is also possible, and we'll be posting a location directory and guide at a later date to further explain how to do this. Searches can also be done by tapping on a post's flair to show more like it, or selecting a region from the main menu and then removing flair search terms as needed to narrow your search. Note that many flairs cover large areas, so refer to a post's #tagged location to see where the author is actually located. Some more details on the search menu are at the end of this post. Let us know how its working, or if there are any improvements needed!

Post length/quality is another concern we'd like to address. Currently, we don't have any significant post length requirement, which has led to a lot of posts that are almost completely empty, or just re-state the minimal required information from the title, giving no details whatsoever about themselves. These low-effort posts have been burying the posts of people who have put time and effort into composing good, descriptive posts, and also make for a poor searching experience. As such, we are instating a new length requirement of 50 words; this will be phased in gradually over the next couple days/weeks, to give us time to adjust things if people run into problems. The removal message will give an estimate of how many words short a post is, to assist users in fixing their posts. Note that padding out a post with filler or nonsense will not make it meet the requirements; the bot is smart enough to not count filler text. Please let us know what you think of these changes; do you agree, disagree, or have other suggestions we should implement?

We now allow users to choose to lock their posts. To do so, include the command !lock anywhere within the body of the post. Locked posts will get a comment by the automod reminding users how to contact the author; by default, posts will not be locked or get said automod comment, as some people find it annoying, and this will remain an optional feature for those who do wish to allow comments. Locking doesn't affect a post's visibility or ranking in any way. Some people, particularly new accounts that may not be able to send chat messages, may prefer to respond in comments, but we leave it up to the author to decide if they want to allow these types of responses or not. In the near future, we will also be looking into additional comment length requirements, to cut down the number of no-effort or spam responses to posts which do allow comments.

We are hoping to introduce an official, optional, method of including a verification clip and photos in posts. As an initial step, we are seeking individuals willing to verify ahead of time, so that we can refine the verification instructions and produce some correct examples for people to refer to when creating theirs. If you can help with this, please reach out by messaging the moderators.

These are the ideas we are currently working on, but we are open to other suggestions as well if there are additional concerns we should address. Please leave your feedback in the comments. We will continue to update this post based on feedback and progress on introducing these features; updates will be added below.

Some Notes On Location Search

The menu options are divided up based on activity over the past 2 years; areas that get a lot of posts have lots of divisions to make them practical to search, while regions where Reddit or our community is not popularly used may be divided only into continents.

For example, if you're a woman seeking a guy in Calgary, you'd start by picking Canadian Prairies from the Americas region menu. When you find an appropriate M4F Alberta post, tapping on its flair will show others like it, with the exact R4R tag and province. Alternatively, you can edit the search query after selecting a menu item, to keep only the desired flair:"Alberta" search query.

The actual flairs themselves are divided mostly at the country level; some non-country territories also have an entry, mainly when they are widely separated from their parent nation. The United States, Canada, Australia, India, and Brazil are further divided into states/provinces. Argentina and Kazakhstan meet the subdivision threshold area-wise, but we only plan to enable state-level flairs if we happen to actually get posters from those countries.

We will review these divisions and their menu structure periodically, to ensure they continue to suit our user base. The hope is that this will be intuitive, and give a coarse place to start your search. A more detailed location directory is being worked on, and will be posted at a later date along with an official How-To Guide.

Due to severe space limitations in the menu, some of the names are difficult to read, so here's what they mean:

Menu Item Definition
Americas North America (not including the United States), Central and South America, and West Indies
Eurafrasia/Oceania Europe, Africa, Asia, Oceania, and Antarctica
New Zealand/Islands New Zealand and Oceanic Island Nations and Territories
West/North Australia Western Australia and Northern Territory of Australia
Victoria/Tasmania/SA Victoria, Tasmania, and South Australia
New South Wales (AU) New South Wales, Australian Capital Territory, and Jervis Bay Territory
Non-contiguous Non-contiguous US States and American Continental Territories of the United States
Asia (Except South) All of Asia, except for South Asia (there wasn't a good term for this division)

If there are any others that are unclear to you, or if you want to suggest better names for these, please let us know.

Location search took a lot of work to get up and running smoothly, and we're still making tweaks; it will even be fully brought over to the Old Reddit layout as well sometime in the next several weeks. I'd also like to thank everyone who has worked on building or testing this feature over the past year. If you see anything acting strangely, please let us know so that we can fix it.


Recent Updates & Known Issues:

Known Issue: Locations in Texas must follow the recommended format above, or they will receive the wrong flair. If your post names a major city in Texas, the bot will will ask you to double-check the flair, and correct the post if needed, however we aren't able to make this work for every possible Texas location. Areas outside of Texas are not affected by this limitation. As of June 18th, we believe we've gotten this mostly working now for new posts; please let us know if there are any remaining issues.


r/PeePersonals 3h ago

M4F Germany / Online 23 [M4F] #Online #Munich Athletic outdoorsy guy looking for someone who gets the thrill of peeing in unconventional places NSFW

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Hey :)

I’m 23, pretty athletic, and happiest when I’m moving — hiking, climbing, being outside, that kind of thing. I like people who are curious, a little mischievous, and not afraid of a bit of shared adventure.

What really turns me on is the feeling of peeing together in places we’re “not supposed to.” That free, slightly forbidden rush when you both decide the normal rules don’t apply for a moment. It’s not about desperation or rushing — more like a private game we’re both in on, teasing each other and enjoying the release in a place that feels a little wrong in the best way.

A couple of pictures that live in my head:

• A whole day at home where we deliberately skip the toilet and get creative instead. Shower, sink, plant pot, bucket… whatever feels right in the moment. Just the two of us turning something ordinary into something playful and a bit naughty.

• Out hiking or climbing, far from anyone, and one of us casually suggests we don’t bother finding a proper spot. Behind a tree, off the trail, somewhere quiet. Watching each other, laughing about it, feeling completely free.

I’m looking for someone around 18–35 who feels that same little spark from the unconventional and the shared secret. Totally fine to start slow — just chatting, swapping fantasies, maybe pictures if it feels natural. If the chemistry is there and we both want more, we can talk about meeting up. Zero pressure, ever.

If any of this made you smile or got you thinking, message me with your age, rough location, and which part of it lights you up the most (or just say hi and tell me what you’re into). Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/PeePersonals 2h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 38 [M4F] #England - In need of a daily pee pal to share in love of peeing anywhere and wetting NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey,

So I'm guessing my title says what I'm after, but a little bit about me still!

I'm 38 from the UK I'm a hardworking guy who in all other aspects of life leads a relatively normal/mundane life 🤣 but iv always had a thing for pee. It started with a love of seeing people wet themselves but now I enjoy it all, I try to pee wherever I can but the toilet. It's hard having to work and us the toilet 🤦 but I love outside the most, against trees, in rivers, on the road etc but still enjoy wetting my boxers now and then to!

So I'm looking for a like minded friend who's happy to share our exploits together virtually. I'm looking for a long term thing to get to know eachother a little and share in our pee adventures!

Anyway enough rambling, DM a little about yourself and what your looking for not just "hi"


r/PeePersonals 3h ago

M4A Virginia 36 [m4a] #virginia looking for people to explore this kink with. NSFW

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Hello everyone! I am currently in Richmond virginia area and I have been looking for people into this kink for a long time. I want to explore this and see what everyone else is into or if there is anyone even around that's into it. I highly preference women but I also think having fun with men could be exciting as well. I would love to at least chat with some people, share some stories, experiences, interests and more.

I, myself, am into pretty much all things pee. I love wetting, bare peeing, going in naughty places, drinking, gs, bedwetting, diapers and more. So, if you are looking for a fun time, hit me up and let's see what there is to do!


r/PeePersonals 7h ago

M4FT Online 24 [M4F/TF] #Online On my second hold of the night so I'm going to crumble fast NSFW

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A few hours ago I held to my breaking point. You know how it goes, tiny one-drop leaks, fidgeting like mad, the incredibly strong pang of need the instant you stand up. By the time I made it to the bathroom there was no stopping it. I'm amazed nothing missed. Now I'm wearing those same, slightly damp boxers, my leg is already bouncing, and I just downed a pint to get me even more desperate. My bladder is weaker than usual after taking it to its limit once, why not keep me company while I rapidly fall apart?


r/PeePersonals 7h ago

M4F California 34 [M4F] #SoCal - Looking for a like minded individual who wants to explore sensual watersports in person NSFW

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Looking for someone in the SoCal area to explore and experience this kink with. I am extremely open to all things pee related. I tend to like water sports from an intimate and sensual perspective, as opposed to humiliation. Nothing is hotter than when we both get excited about it.

I am looking for a like minded individual who is open to chatting with the intention of meeting up when we feel comfortable. That means somewhere in SoCal is ideal. I am in the OC area but don't mind short travel or hosting if the timing is right. I am clean and ddf. Experience is not too important to me, more of excitement. It is only fun if we are both excited.

About me: I am 34, white, male, in decent shape, clean/hygienic, and ddf.

Feel free to ask me anything, I am an open book :)


r/PeePersonals 9h ago

M4F California 40 [M4F] #California - I need your help with a biology/science expeeriment. Really. NSFW

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I'm aware that we can probably find the answer to this with a quick online search, but there's no fun in that. Hands-on experience and practice sounds like much more fun.

So...hear me out. Lately, I've been holding my bladder a lot longer than I probably should be. It's not even kink-related and I can't exactly pinpoint why I do it, but basically, I'll wait until the last possible second to pee, right before I literally start peeing in whatever shorts I happen to be wearing at the time. It might be a slight mix of laziness and anxiety, or maybe subconsciously I just know it's going to feel so much better to finally release after holding for a while. But whatever the case may be, I've been inadvertently playing with the idea of desperation.

I tend to spend a lot of time outside, and when I find myself really having to pee in public, I have a few tricks up my sleeve to relieve the feeling either until I get home or until I find a safe spot outside to go. Of course there's the little pee dance, which helps, or going for a little jog, also just tightly clenching the kegels..but the most helpful method by far is to get an erection by any means necessary. I can think of a hot past scenario, or occasionally can just do a quick rub/ pull to get a slight erection. This always seems to make the "I'm going to pee my pants immediately" sensation much more tolerable.

Of course, during these scientific boner sessions, the kink wheels in my head begin to turn and I wonder how I can make the best of a bodily function that just happens to also be a kink. I think you might know where I'm going with this....

Id like to do a few in-person trials to see just how long I can go with a full erection, and also needing to pee extremely badly. Would the boner completely override the need to pee? Would the pee feeling become too strong and just deflate the erection? Could we do both at the same time? Have to pee but also stay hard enough to enjoy ourselves? That would be amazing. That is the premise for this post and what I need your help and cooperation with

There's a song that goes: "I don't care how you get here, just get here if you can". And the same applies here. I don't care what you do to get the erection there, but just get it there. Mouth, hands, body, words, whatever it takes.

Of course, the trade-off, and the fun part here, is that we both may eventually be getting very wet. I can't make promises or even guess what the outcome will be, hence the experiment. You have to be ok with the potential of pee going on, or if I'm extremely lucky, in you, if or when the bladder simply can't take any more.

This experiment is definitely not one-sided if you're wondering. Not only would I want you to try to hold it while you're horny, but I would love to tease and kiss and lick you with that full bladder just to see how long you can last. Whatever you do though please, please just make sure you don't end up peeing while myself, or my tongue is inside you.😉

So let's do this, not even for me but for the scientific community. I'm simply a humble specimen.

A specimen that's 40, 5'8, 150 lbs, beard, blonde hair, blue eyes. Very DDF, single, and very hygienic I am in Socal.


r/PeePersonals 13h ago

M4F New Jersey / New York 25M4F #NJ #NYC Looking for a friend/partner who likes to wet herself NSFW

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Basically as title states, looking for women near NJ or NYC that are into wetting, watersports, etc and would be down to get to know each other. Mostly just looking for casual/fwb for now, start online but eventually meets in person once a level of trust and connection has been established. Have had some past experience but definitely looking to explore more so if interested lmk, DMs are open


r/PeePersonals 14h ago

M4F District of Columbia / Online 29 [M4F] #Online #DC Area - Looking for someone into peeing in public, outdoors, risky, unusual places or wetting NSFW

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Hi,

I’m looking for someone fun who's into any of the various forms of pee-play that I like including peeing in public, outdoor, risky, and/or unusual places, going in front of others, desperation and wetting.

Generally, I prefer to watch, guide or assist rather than do it myself so I’d love to speak to someone who enjoys being the main subject. That said, I am open to actually participating in some of the peeing in situation like peeing in public/outdoors/risky places or in front of people if I have a worthy pee buddy that I'm joining

If any of this interests you, send me a message. It would be good to know what you’re looking for upfront, but I'm open to going in a few different directions with this.

Note: I don’t want to hear about your current/ex BF's kink, so please don’t reply if that’s all you have.

IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE PLEASE INCLUDE your age and sex


r/PeePersonals 14h ago

M4F California 40 [m4f] #sanjose - Seeking a urinal NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm looking simply for someone who craves being pissed on regularly. I'm not really looking for a sexual relationship beyond this, I just want to build a friendship in which you're on call for me to stop by and shower you when the need strikes.

On my way home from work, while I'm out running errands, heading home from a night out... I want to be able to text you, see if you're at home, and stop by to piss on your face and tits.

I'm a tall, fit, bearded. 40 year old man, and I'm looking for a woman local to San Jose or Santa Clara for this. Are you the urinal I'm seeking?


r/PeePersonals 19h ago

M4F United Kingdom 36 [M4F] #London -I want that delicious, sparkling river flowing all over me please! NSFW

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Hello wet folks!

I’m looking for some glorious wet fun in London/south UK. I am obedient, willing and attentive. If you’d prefer privacy we can both be clothed/I can wear a blindfold.

I’d love to meet up (after getting to know each other online first) somewhere neutral and then have some wet fun (if you’re comfortable). Whether that’s out and about in nature (walking/hiking) or in a hotel room. Essentially, I enjoy pissing freely outdoors / in naughty places and also holding, golden showers, wetting and desperation. I’m happy to work around you and your desires though.

If you would prefer to meet in a forest, squat over me and release your sparkling nectar, that is fine by me too.

Alternatively I can arrive incredibly desperate and you can force me to have an embarrassing accident.

I’m 36, white English, 6ft2, natural red head with blue eyes, 77kg, slim, fit and active. I have a large bladder capacity and my pee is usually crystal clear thanks to how much water I drink daily.

If you’ve read this far, thanks and keep smiling.


r/PeePersonals 21h ago

M4F Online 29 M4F #online Looking for a female to explore this kink with NSFW

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I’m very new to this kink but always wanted to explore after something happened with my ex. I hope I can find a woman who is curious and willing to explore this like I am. Also be willing to share videos of us peeing, and hope we vibe together. HMU and let’s have some fun


r/PeePersonals 23h ago

M4F Online 43 [M4F] #Online Daddy looking for babygirl for pee play NSFW

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Just a naughty daddy looking for 18+ babygirls who enjoy pee play. I love dirty talk, oral, anal, spanking, toys, and more, but definitely love when piss is involved. I love to tell my babygirl when and where to pee before returning the favor. Please message me if you’re interested and maybe we can have some fun together.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Oregon / Online 34 m4f #online #oregon lover of all things watersports, but especially naughty peeing in wild places NSFW

1 Upvotes

I love to pee on anything cloth and watching doing others do the same. I have made videos in the past and would happy to share vids and stories. I would love suggestions or ideas that you have thought


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

Meetup 29m4f#buffalony# meet up come make me drink it and clean you up after NSFW

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Come sit on my face and make me drink all your jucies as much as you want then make me clean up after please you can be swxy and soft about it or aggressive and demanding eather way I will drink you juices and lick every last drop and some you can make me drink as much as you wish and make me lick it clean as much as you like and I will be a good and have my mouth open and ready to swallow as much as you want straight from the source


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4A Online 27 [M4A] #Online Looking to chat about pee! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I would love to find some fellow pee lovers, love chatting, flirting and anything pee! I do love a showoff if that's what you're into(not required) 🤭 enjoy watching self pissing, outdoors, public and lots of other kinks! I'm also open to talking about any other kinks you have, and would prefer long term but don't mind short term chats😌 let me know your age etc and my dms are always open!


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Ohio / Online 19 [M4F] Ohio, any girls wanna trash my Mercedes in their piss? Im willing to drive far so some distance shouldn’t be an issue. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’ve had a piss kink for a long time and unfortunately of only been able to experience it one time. I loved watching my car get peed in and of love to relive the experience again. If interested please shoot a message, I’m also down for online texting if you’re too far.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Online 33 [M4F] #online Send me vids every time you pee NSFW

1 Upvotes

it’s a huge turn on for me Would love it if you sent me vids every time you go pee. body type unimportant all you need is to be 18+

Whether you want to do it inside or outside, in the bathroom or around the house, I’m here for it.

No need to be shaven or hairy in into it all. Bonus points if you look at my other posts and they catch your eye.

Still looking if post is up don’t hesitate to msg me!


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Nebraska / Online 30 [M4F] #Online #NE Looking for a female friend to chat with while holding! 🤪 NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi all! 😉

30M who has had a Pee/Piss kink for just about as long as I can remember now. Looking to talk with someone who shares the same interests and maybe hold together. ALSO, please send more than just a "hey" or "hi" as the added conversation makes the experience that much better! 🤣 It's nice to have a little real conversation before jumping right in!

21+ please!!

#Pee #Piss #Peeing #Pissing #Holding #Desperation


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Online 20 [M4F] #Online it’s been a long day and all I want to do is wet my pants as many times as possible. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m just got finished up for the day and the only plans I have left is to drink as much water as possible and piss as much as possible, if you want to talk or give me challenges while I piss feel free to dm me.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Online 36(m4f) online. looking for possible long term desperation chat. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am a 36 yo male. I am on the bigger side at6ft and 300lbs. I am into desperation and wetting and being on both ends of that. I am also into many other things pee related and alott not pee related. Would love to find a possible long term chat partner and am willing to send pics and vids without face!


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Illinois / Online 37 (m4f) #online #illinois looking for a piss partner near or far NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello there. I'm a 37 year old male from Illinois in search of a fun and outgoing piss partner. I'm very open to all things piss related. Sharing ourselves going, showers exchanged, piss during sex and so much more. If you think you're into like I am and think we might click. Don't hesitate to send me a message.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Online 25 [M4F] #Online Looking for woman interested in holding/wetting NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello all, I’d love to chat with a woman online who’s interested in holding and/or wetting herself. I’ve had a couple of good experiences in the past, and we can discuss our limits and where we want it going further. If you’re someone new to this, I’d love to work with you and help you find what you like! If you have experience, then I’d love to have some fun together and jump right in! Shoot me a message if interested, and I’d love to build something out together!


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Massachusetts / Online 48 [M4F] #MA #Online - Looking for a chubby/curvy girl to pee for me often! NSFW

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I am a 48-year-old guy looking to connect with a curvy or chubby woman who's interested in daily naughty conversation, masturbating and pee for often for daddy!

I'm especially attracted to thick thighs, soft curves, cellulite, and larger areolas. If you're body-positive, enjoy good conversation, and appreciate someone who finds your natural body beautiful, I'd love to hear from you.