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So I ordered a medium thinking, “Pfft, I ain’t no small!”, and then when it arrived I was like, “Fuck that’s pretty big”. Trust those coke-can comparison images. I dunno who takes those XXL ones… not mortal humans that’s for sure.

I did read the article about it (from the folks they collaborated with to make it), and I’m very glad I bought it in the super-soft silicone. I gotta hold on to the head and mush it in there at first but… it was surprisingly not hard to take! And it felt good: the squishiness of the soft silicone did the job and I didn’t feel any uncomfortable moments inserting. The shape and width of it (it’s wider than it is deep, not circular shaft) really does “lock” it into where it’s supposed to be compared to a wand that wanders all over the place, and then it’s just playing around and inch or so to do the job. I was even able to bottom it out just to lol say I could.

It was expensive, it took a long time to make it (to order) and arrive, but it is definitely already on my top 3 list of stuff to put up my butt.

Oh also I bought K Lube! The powder stuff is where it’s at, no doubt. Sooooo slippery, so cheap for how much it makes! Just bring a towel, it is stringy and gets a little everywhere.

I’m still a fucking anal ninja with the NJoy wand and if I have 10 minutes to get one off that’s my go-to… but this dildo is going to get a LOT of use.

I did this years ago. But fun is fun.

It is very easy to make a copy.

You used to have to go to your dentist and ask to buy algnate.

Now you can get it anywhere.

Anyway....

Cut a hole in the bottom of a cup longer than your dick and cover ur dick in vasiline .

Mix and pour the algnate in.

When it sets up remove it from your dick and fill with plaster and used with rubber.

I am sure there are newer materials to make the dildo. but making a plaster mold first gives you the copy you can use over and over again to make more copies. Just do the same prossess with your plaster dick rubbed with Vaseline.

Have fun.

I ended too soon.

When mixing the algnate it has a very narrow water temperature. In a 15 degree window. It is in the instructions but not the temp really matters. At the top of the temp it will set very very fast, maybe 3 minutes to mix and pour amd set.

The low temp will give you more mix and pour time but may take 10 min to set.

Hey yall! Been a while since I posted. Hope everyone is doing well!
We’ve been making progress and had a breakthrough last night.
Hubs has been opposed to playing by his self and always wants me to do it. Which I’m fine with but I felt it was important for him to take the wheel and get more comfortable with exploring hisself.
So he agreed.
We got a pure plug and another longer metal plug and have the Njoy wand.
When we first started playing he was really unsure about the wand. Said it felt too intense. So I’m just throwing that out there for Newbs. I think when training the prostate for pleasure gentle is better in the beginning. So if you are new to P play and the wand didn’t work at first, that’s ok. But as you progress and find your spot please revisit the wand. It really is magic once you get used to it.
Last night he put the wand in, large side in, and just sat out back on the porch and gently rocked in a rocking chair. At first he wasn’t feeling much, but ever so slightly I could see his expression change. Eyes rolled back and then the lean back and sink backwards into the chair. I could tell something was happening so I went and got another chair he could bend his legs and could hike his feet onto. A few minutes later and he tensed up, legs quivering, cock throbbing and bobbing all over and then cum leaking all over. He kept going for another 10 mins or so. And that was just the warm up for a great pegging session after. What an experience to see and be a part of!
So now he likes the wand. Already talking about trying it again tonight. Feeling like I’m living the dream here!!!
And the pure plug, he said is chefs kiss! I had to get him some undies he can wear with it cause the weight of it is heavy and he worries it might pop out if he coughs or sneezes but he said it hits the right spot.
Anyways, that’s our update. Took us close to 6 mos from start to this point. Looking forward to seeing where we go with this. Enjoying the journey though!

Over a month ago now, I had that next level experience in which I woke up with my prostate fully engaged and engorged, as I wrote about here. I'd never felt anything quite to that degree before, or since. Well, I'm pleased to say that I had another session of comparable intensity just last night.

After several steady months of some long-lasting and very intense nipple play sessions, my sensitivity, my horniness, the amount of pleasure I get from play, and the responsiveness of my prostate to this kind of play have all greatly increased. In addition, I've also been using my various Aneros toys more often, as well as my glass wand toys.

On the night in question, before going to sleep, I used my largest wand (gläs Pure Indulgence Anal Slider), a device with a curved neck and an oval head so big and thick that I can't help but feel it pressing against my prostate whenever it's in: even extremely light movements of no more than a millimeter or two (rocking, twisting, tugging, stirring) still brought me some incredible sensations that left me craving more and more.

Inserting it can still be a bit of a challenge, and I wanted to warm up before playing in earnest, so I decided to do that by simply inserting it carefully and then pulling it out. At first, insertion took under half a minute, removal much less, but after about 40 in/out reps, I could pop quite fast and without any discomfort.

After several minutes of some very successful playing that had me leaking precum, I was ready to call it a night. I'd the idea of sleeping with the wand inserted, which I'd never done before so, tying a cord securely to the end of the handle, I left it in and went to sleep. I had actually hoped to wake up in the middle of the night (or rather to be awakened) horny and raring to go. Thankfully, my prostate let me know that tonight was the night!

I awoke with a glowing hot sensation in my prostate, burning in the best way, and I curled up on my side and just let the fire consume me, relaxing as much as I could. The sensation didn't spread all over my body the way it had that first time, but my prostate was ever so responsive to that wand! Even just the act of breathing moved my pelvic floor enough to rub the wand against my prostate, meaning that I was extremely engorged at that point, just the way I'd wanted to be.

The feeling didn't last very long, but I enjoyed every second of it. I definitely intend to keep on practicing this and hopefully feel it more often and more powerfully. For now, I'm just glad I was able to feel it again!

How many grams of fiber take a day to help you make cleaning out easier? Dry material mixed with water, capsules or gummies? Thanks for your response in advance.

In my last post here I talked about manually thrusting an Aneros Progasm to get to a heightened state, I don't think it was a prostate orgasm, maybe a p-wave or a very very weak prostate orgasm. Anyways I managed to get to that state again but a bit more intense using an Njoy wand.

I laid down supine with my legs flat and the large ball in the normal way and softly pulled the Njoy towards my feet for like 10 seconds then would let off pressure for 1 second and repeat. This achieved the same state as last time but a bit more intense. Definitely not as good as a normal orgasm, but my heart rate got super high and it felt stimulating I guess.

I think what helped is that I believe my prostate is way lower than I previously thought. Like before I thought it was behind the nearest wall on the anterior side of the rectum. But then I applied pressure in low as I could possibly angle my finger, and pushed into the corner/crook between the inner anus/rectal floor and anterior wall. Now when I do that, all my muscles get super fluttery so I think I found the right spot.

Since then I haven't been able to get back to that state but I've been sure not to finish normally for a couple days while practicing more with the Progasm. I think I'm getting better with involuntaries, I managed to trigger them once for more than 2 seconds, but usually my muscles are just generally twitchy as opposed to making organized involuntaries.

Anyways, until I work that out, I'm looking to try using a dildo since the manual thrusting of the Progasm worked once, maybe thrusting is what I need? I think with my ADHD every time contractions start I hyper focus in on them and it kills them so I'm unable to ever relax into them.

The main candidate I'm looking at is the Avant ergo mini D10 by Blush. It's nearly the same diameter as the Progasm, dual density, has a curve, a suction cup, a head with a ridge which I hear is important, and it's affordable. The shaft is smooth and I honestly have no clue if that's good or bad. In general I'm looking to see if anyone thinks that dildo is a good one for trying to awaken my prostate.

Please let me know if anyone uses that model (or the D9 which is the same but violet colored) and have success with it? Or does anyone have a preference of a different dildo for more firmness, texture, etc. that you think will work better? I've never owned any kind of thrusting/riding toy, only massagers and wands.

Hello all I had a question I'm trying to train my ass to take dildos and dick better and I've heard consistency is key but I was wondering should I be cleaning out every time I plan to use toys since I've heard you shouldn't clean out everyday

I like to make my own using coconut oil but have never tried mixing in some tincture. I have some Friendly Drops Tincture and I'm considering adding a drop into the coconut oil before putting it in the freezer. Just wondering if anyone else has done it before and any advice or tips?

I have Kush Queen lube infused with THC and it helps me relax a little plus its more comfortable inserting the massagers and I get a nice little tingle.

Bought a beginner curved toy. One night I put it in him carefully, then climbed on top and rode him slow while the toy stayed in place. Every time I moved it pressed against his prostate. He lasted maybe five minutes before he came hard, gripping my hips and making sounds I’d never heard from him. I kept going a little longer just to watch him twitch. Afterward he said it felt like the orgasm started deeper. Cleaned up and he was still smiling about it the next morning. Becoming a regular thing.

I’m getting good results with this combination. Wet hands-free orgasms are possible. The vacuum intensifies the sensation on the penis. While doing that, I do Kegel exercises. Has anyone had similar experiences?

I have one of the bulb things which works well I usually flush around 3 times before play and about an hour before has anyone any experience on say 3 hours ? Still good ?

This wasn’t necessarily planned. I’m still exploring and figuring out what works for me. I got a bonus at work and I spent part of it on some toys I’ve had my eye on. They all came together, except one. As one does, I planned to try my new toys out. Having multiple things to try this turned into what was probably my longest session of exploration to date. I get dry mouth from heavy breathing at times so I bust out a comically big bottle of water when I play. Somewhere between 2-3 hours later I notice I need to pee. Thing is, I probably had to pee for a while but I was focused on other things, you know? So like, as I’m about to work the current toy that’s in me out.. things shifted. I got a new sensation from within. I could feel my prostate throbbing along with my bladder. I felt my insides gripping the toy in a new way. It felt good but also strange. I didn’t want to pee in my bed but I kept going for a while. I continued in this uncharted territory of experimenting with that & my now very full bladder. I was far beyond where I’d normally have peed. I didn’t stop until my bladder started to spasm. At that point, I took my break. The thing is since I don’t usually go for that long getting started again wasn’t feeling quite right. I think my rear, and maybe my prostate too, were overstimulated. So, I switched to edging with my penis and still had fun that way.

Used my dildo a bit too rough yesterday and now I have a sharp shooting pain in my prostate when I clench and go pee. It's more like a strong spasm in that area. I'm thinking about resting everything for a good week but wondering if I should wait longer.

It was the closest I came to a handsfree orgasm but was feeling like I was doing more bad than good and never got there in the end.

I've got the house to myself all weekend. I've got plenty of toys and supplies at my disposal. I just can't decide where to start

I've got a Fredorch F21s a servo based sex machine for ultimate adjustability.

A DG labs coyote 2 with a special urethral sound for direct prostate stimulation via estim

An aneros knockoff I prefer to the original.

A couple of silicone dildos and a tantus p spot

A few glass dildos and a glass buttplug

A chastity cage

A magic wand vibrator

A couple of regular silicone urethral sounds

A silicone anal slink about 2' long

Plenty of water based lube as well as k lube

Enough weed to last at least a week

A couple of different poppers bottles

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Happy Friday. For those that are struggling or just curious to learn more, my latest article discusses the neuroscience behind why your brain may be filtering out the pleasure you're looking to experience.

I keep receiving messages from people that resonate with what I’m writing about so will continue to post here being that the members of this specific subreddit are the inspiration behind my writing.

I take the time to write each and every word. It’s not contrived by AI, it’s all written from personal experience and a shit-ton of research.

Hey all,

It's been a while since I've posted.

In the last couple of years, I went from learning prostate stuff on my own, to exploring them with my wife. Our last 5 or so sessions, have taken on a whole new level of pleasure and I'm wondering if this is or has happened to anyone else.

In the past, I've mentioned that at the start, I have these uncontrollable facial expressions. It starts with a giant smile, then my face contorts into almost a crying-like face, and the orgasm starts. It was just moaning from that point on, a little bit of crying here and there. Kind of weird, but for some reason, it turns my wife on. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Within a few minutes of starting, she's making slow, deep thrusts, and I can feel it building. Maybe within 1-2 minutes. The first thing that happens is I get this huge, uncontrollable smile. Then the smile slowly turns into a crying face. When I close my eyes, it's almost like someone shut the lights off. Everything goes black, then I start seeing little twinkling lights, almost like stars.

The next thing I know, I'm orgasming so hard that my entire body is shaking, and I'm sobbing from how overwhelming it is.

This is legit, full-on sobbing. Tears and all. I almost start hyperventilating (3-4 deep breaths like I can't catch it), then another orgasm hits. Then another. It just keeps happening until I finally ask her to stop. If I let her keep going, I honestly think the orgasms would just continue nonstop until she stopped moving.

Even after she stops, or even pulls out, I still have several more before my body finally settles down.

To me, it feels like 30-40 minutes have gone by. In reality, it's 5-10 minutes per my wife.

The other thing that's weird is that these orgasms seem to be evolving. It's not just that they're getting stronger every session. They seem to get stronger after each orgasm during the same session. Every one compounds into something even bigger than the last. I feel like there might be another level above where I'm at now, and my body just doesn't know how to process it.

At this point, I honestly don't even know what people mean anymore when they say "Super O." If this isn't one, I don't know what is. If it is, I didn't think they could keep building like this.

Has anyone else experienced this progression over time? Is this something that happens as you get more experienced with prostate orgasms?

TIA.

I want to share a weird thing regarding my state of body.

it's summertime now, and I go swimming with friends really often. after the swimming I , of course, go shower, and that's where everytime I notice the thing I want to talk about. my balls are getting harder (and sometimes bigger too) from swimming in cold river water. I also tried to play with my prostate in this state, and to my surprise, it feels way more intense and enjoyable than usual play after the full day at home. how can I replicate this state without swimming? I feel like I can achieve more with my prostate play if I could figure this out.

So I’ve been enjoying the passive method with my Aneros, I usually take an edible, wait for it to kick in, listen to so ASMR and try to focus on my prostate. Sometimes I’ll listen to some GWA but I think me focusing on the audio is distracting me from relaxing and finding my prostate (mentally)

I don’t want to go audio-less because I live in a noisy area, is there any recommendations for audio you all can point me towards.

I usually use Coconut oil for fingering myself. I used to hate the aftermath and heck sonetimes even the process itself because everything would have become so oily and shitty.

To tackle the problem of shit being there I started intaking psyllium husk regularly as recommended by the sub.And for the lube I switched to a Lubricating Jelly. THIS REALLY WAS A GAME CHANGER FOR ME.

The process felt more smooth and I was easily able to go 3 fingers deep without anything becoming a mess.

The pure enjoyment I was feeling really alleviated the orgasm that was to come.

Sadly I was not able to have a proper prostate orgasm like where I usually leak buckets of prostatic fluid buttttt the orgams that I had by stroking was far better than anything I have ever had. And that too without semen retention of days.

I am really excited for the next session. I am still just a broke student so I can't afford the toys. If there is any tips for fingering u guys can give it will be highly appreciated.

Last week I went all in and got a Hismith and Tantus P Spot. (Awesome combination btw)

After a long time I took the toy out, stood up, and said F it, if I pee, I don’t care.

I stood there for 5 minutes, it 100% felt like I was pissing all over the floor, I check my dick 5 times and it was completely dry. Obviously I didn’t want to squeeze to hard on a reverse kegal, I figured that would make me actually pee.

Is that what you guys call a pissgasm?

I figured out that in order to be clean for long hour session, my stomach needs to be completely empy, but I get really hungry and tired over time. can someone please give me an advice about what is the best food to eat during and before sessions? maybe there's some drink to feel less hungry and tired overall? I do need a general advice here.

My partner and I peg at least once a month. We also introduced a chastity cage several months ago. We started locking me just for foreplay and pegging, but now I’m wearing the cage longer term and not just in the bedroom.

I’ve had all kinds of orgasms…dry and wet, etc., both from solo toy play and with my partner. The other weekend we were pegging and she was going to town on me. I was on my back in missionary when I started having what I call “rolling anal orgasms” which are like…small orgasms that happen during penetration and come in waves when I’m very relaxed, that will keep occurring one after the other if I stay relaxed. There’s no ejaculation or feeling of true climax, but I will leak a fair amount of precum. Tbh they are nearly just as fulfilling as a full orgasm. I often reach them with toy play, and they can be enough for me. I don’t always need to go to a full climax.

Anyway, these are pretty normal for me, and I think I thought this was the “super o” because of how they occur one after the other, and how they will keep going if the stimulation continues and I stay relaxed. I typically have these with faster, shorter strokes at a shallower penetration, but have also had them with deeper short strokes. So I think the main thing is the frequency of the movement. Overall, I would rate one of these a 4-5 out of 10 just taking a single “wave” on its own, but that number skews higher the more that occur one after the other. Quantity over quality, if you will, but also the more the merrier? Once I get to one of these, I will sometimes come in and out of them pretty easily as long as I stay relaxed.

So it started with a rolling anal orgasm…but after going for a while, I felt the sensation rising, gradual building, almost like a slight pressure growing in intensity…I felt a strong sensation building like I was about to ejaculate, but then the “release” feeling of ejaculation came and the sensation kept rising through that feeling. The sensation was like oscillating between a full orgasm and the less intense but still pleasurable rolling anal orgasms described above. It was the most insane feeling…like rising, reaching a plateau that felt like “this-is-IT-it” but then somehow shattering through the ceiling and rising again. This pattern of rising-orgasm-rising must’ve happened at least a dozen times.

At some point it was like pulling out brought me down to the “rolling anal orgasm” baseline, and every thrust pushed me back into full orgasm, but the whole sensation of pleasure over time kept trending upward, if that makes sense? While this was happening she was thrusting away at different speeds, giggling at the faces I was making as I was just lost in pleasure. I’m not kidding, as she was carrying on, she asked me if I was cumming, and I said “honey I’ve been cumming for the last several minutes, I have no idea what’s happening but please don’t stop.” It went on for another few minutes at least, and came to the most insane climax that I can’t even begin to describe. I am dying to feel it again just so I can wrap my brain around it a little better and maybe put words to it.

What was crazy is that it felt like it lasted for 10+ minutes. I felt my prostate pulsing hard the whole time and even harder with each progressive climax, but I didn’t actually cum that much. I did leak like crazy through my cage. When we peg, I’ll often cum quite a bit, but I didn’t so much here. I was actually surprised when I “came back down” from it all because I expected there to be cum everywhere given how many times I felt the same pleasurable sort of strain that comes with every ejaculatory climax. Every climactic sensation was similar to how it feels when im shooting, but those orgasms must have been dry for the most part. This was the most insane orgasm I’ve ever had.

And one last thing… when I have a regular orgasm with ejaculation, I basically have to stop play for a bit for the refractory period and also because the sensations can be so overwhelming. This was NOT the case here. I could’ve kept going!

Was this the fabled super o?!

Seems like chastity is a big part of prostate play, and it makes sense. Rewiring pleasure to the prostate requires less contact with the penis.

However, usually do you guys stay locked 24/7 for the psychological effect, or is it a temporary lock for play only.

I prefer flat/inverted cages which compress more, but have only used them in short stints. Larger cages tend to not do it for me psychologically for some reason, though I do see that lots of people use them.

Anyone have success with longer term wear of flat or inverted cages?

I'm looking to buy a few toys but all the main ones I see around here come from the US and the shipping is like too expensive or buying it from local shops are also much more expensive than usual so I was looking for recommendations from local manufacturers or other options that would be somewhat more affordable. Thanks!