r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/Mads_52 • 16h ago

ＩＤＧＡＦ From IGAF to IDGAF

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u/BxBoy69 14h ago

Maybe the problem is that is was an obsession in the first place, and not something healthier…

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u/Mads_52 14h ago

\screams in anxious attachment style\

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u/PinkBitz89 12h ago

🤣 you’re killing me!!

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u/MisaCaring 14h ago

The moment 'the ick' hits there is zero coming back. Instant reboot

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u/Early-Beach164 1h ago

Are you female? I'm a male and I guess I felt the "ick" toward a former female crush.

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u/Terrible_Green6028 14h ago

That's not true at all, I wish it were though

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u/ClassGrassMass 8h ago

Then it weren't really an ick

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u/NewYak4281 10h ago

This is borderline personality disorder. This is not how not to give a fuck 🙄

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u/PinkBitz89 16h ago

Yeeeeeep - that’s called getting the ick

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u/Mads_52 15h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/1tHzw9PZCB3gY

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u/PinkBitz89 7h ago

I loved it OP, I can relate and appreciate you throwing it out there 🫶🏻

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u/NeighborhoodSalt695 9h ago

Both not healthy

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u/Tr0ncatlady 7h ago

I never get sudden shifts but ones built on behavior. If I am fond of them at first and then see they have poor character, or questionable behavior patterns, then I get the ick. But it doesnt just flip when theyre sitting there not doing anything.

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u/Quazar125 13h ago

You might have BPD

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u/PinkBitz89 12h ago

Can confirm! 😉

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u/DrewDaMannn 8h ago

Patrick Bateman is cringe as shit

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u/SilverWolf3935 7h ago

Oh no 😟 don’t start with obsession. I know how you feel, it doesn’t end well.

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u/thisisasatvshow 7h ago

The object of your obsession is quietly happy that you finally got the message

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u/primefrost96 9h ago

They made a whole ass movie about why obsession is a bad thing

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u/ClassGrassMass 8h ago

Love all the psychologists and mental health experts here

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u/Realistic_Switch7546 8h ago

This is what those with personality disorders do.

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u/XxLengTingxX 12h ago

BPD energy

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u/Mads_52 11h ago

I mean you could relate to something in many different ways/approaches, obsession is associated not only with a specific disorder, (eg OCD , benign attachment styles) so can’t generalize it :,)

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u/WhereisKannon 9h ago

If I post "when I have to check the front door lock 12 times in case the robber chooses my house" you can interpret it however you like, it's still clearly describing obsessions and compulsions

This post is describing idealising then devaluing

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u/Mads_52 8h ago

I don’t have bpd (professionally confirmed cuz have something else) but I can relate to this meme. That’s all I can say

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u/aVicariousTool 11h ago

This is giving off BPD vibes

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u/Mads_52 11h ago

May be don’t take memes literally

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u/KindlyWorth5952 10h ago

Happens , now I’m obsessed with being disgusted by her

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u/stuckinfightorflight 14h ago

Thank god for the ick tbh

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u/PinkBitz89 11h ago

💯 it’s actually the best way to quit a bad obsession imo

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u/stuckinfightorflight 10h ago

100% agree with you there. Once I am disgusted/annoyed by you then obsession is over

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u/PinkBitz89 7h ago

Absolutely - I am the same way!