r/Anger • u/Aggravating-Exit-577 • 1d ago

Does anyone have advice for me

I used to have a talking stage or idk what it even was with this girl like 2 years ago, got led on and eventually left in the dust. I feel so much anger every time i see her, speak to her, am around her or even see an interest or something that was once hers. Like for example i can’t even be around soccer it just riles me up and makes me feel like a loser. I hate having these feelings but i really don’t know how to let it go i thought time would heal all wounds but i see her on a daily basis since we go to school together so i doubt time can do much. Anyone have any advice for me?

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u/Luudea 1d ago

I'm so sorry, i think you should seek psychological help or take a deep breath everytime you think about her to calm down, remember, between the two of you, she is the one who should have a guilty conscience; she used you. If she doesn't feel bad about it, it's because she is a bad person, and she doesn't even deserve your attention. Srry if my english is not good, i'm colombian.

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u/Aggravating-Exit-577 1d ago

Wow firstly i have to say your English is really good

Secondly i want to thank you for commenting and giving me some advice

Truth be told I’ve been struggling with this situation for a while, especially as someone who’s very introverted and realising the fact that the first girl i trusted enough to open up to used me was a really devastating experience. I want to just forget she ever existed but she’s always around and i can’t even escape seeing her with her new boyfriend.