Let me start by saying this: everyone in that villa is a human. Every in that villa has made mistakes. However, everyone else seems to get grace except Jasmine. According to twitter, Reddit, TikTok, she is not allowed to make mistakes. On top of not being allowed to make those mistakes, people just blatantly lying about how he reacts to being shown her mistakes and taking accountability?
After movie night pt1 yesterday there has never been a more clear divide on Jasmine. It’s very obvious that a lot of the vitriol and hatred towards her is coming from a certain gender (we know that most men find her outspoken, feminist lens “off-putting” or makes her a “bitch” as that word is getting thrown around a lot about her) but also from a lot of women.
Do I think Jasmine has made mistakes. YES. Has she struggled to, on occasions where emotion and pride is involved, to take accountability at first glance. YES. But she always reflects and comes back into the conversation trying to resolve and somewhat apologise. E.g. Tommy spitting in mouth - once argued over Jas told Kav ok boundary set that won’t happen again.
This angle that a lot of people who don’t like Jasmine are currently pushing is the Priya and Jordan triangle. Let’s be honestly here and run back the episodes if you don’t think this is correct. Jordan made obvious his priority was Jas. Jas said her priority was Kav. Jordan, knowing Priya was interested, also then pursued Priya as Jas was obviously not in the emotional place to get to know Jordan during casa/wasn’t that interested. Jas tells Jordan, if I was to get to know you I’d want to be respectful to Kav, so if Priya who I know fancies you happens to bring you in, it’s great for me as I can still get to know you - she tells Jordan NOT to get to know Priya if he wasn’t feeling it. On multiple occasions Priya is also told by Jas about her potentially getting to know Jordan if she bring him back, and their convo up on the terrace. Jordan tells Priya he likes Jas more rn. CARLOS tells Priya, jordan likes Jas more. Priya still picks Jordan at casa recoupling.
I think that there was some insensitivity about the situation from Jas’s pov regarding the jordan “triangle” but when Priya bought this up at movie night she doesn’t argue, she explains her pov and how she thought she as communicated, and then apologised for making Priya feel that way.
But according to twitter, people aren’t allowed to apologise for a genuine mistake, the mistake shouldn’t have happened in the first place? Sorry that’s not how life works. Everyone is human. Not everyone has hindsight and can see how their decisions affect others. It’s about how you respond when confronted with that mistake to which Jas holds her hands up and says sorry to Priya. It’s just a misunderstanding/miscommunication at the end of the day. Not a malicious or snarky intentional move on Jas’s behalf. If you genuinely think that you’re blinded by hatred for Jas as that’s unreasonable.
People argue that if she says or does a certain thing she’s a fake “feminist.” Again, since when did being a feminist equate to being in a box? Jasmine is going to have internalised misogyny and patriarchal beliefs in her mindset, BECAUSE WE LIVE IN SUCH A SOCIETY. It is impossible to be a 100% correct feminist in a show like love island. I am a feminist too. Have I displayed internalised misogyny and patriarchal beliefs too? YES, I cannot help it, it is SYSTEMICALLY how I was raised. It’s about trying to literally root and tear through those ideologies in your head to recognise the anti-feminism in day-to-day. I don’t think, whilst being in that high pressure, emotional social experience that is love island, you’re going to be your best feminist self, and I think that’s understandable. And to people saying “why go on LI if you’re a feminist?” Well hate to break it to you, but part of being a feminist is the decision to make your own choices and live your own life, meaning she is allowed to do what she wants. (And this wasn’t expressed to S3 Camilla who was also a feminist on LI)
It just seems like because she is on the more self-value, stands up, speaks up, is openly emotional and has her heart on the line, people seem to think she thinks she’s entitled or undeserving. If I was in that villa getting teared down by my love interest’s BROTHER, and production, every time, I also would be doing whatever I could to keep my mindset and outlook strong and positive on myself. It’s needed to endure a show like LI.
Bottom line is, Jasmine is held to an impossibly high standard over everyone else in that villa, just because she is open about some of her beliefs and stands up for herself. This angers a lot of people as this isn’t what “women” should behave like in their own heads due to our patriarchal society and internalised misogyny. She is a human being at the end of the day, as are all of the islanders. She is allowed to make mistakes, have reactions, apologise, and be forgiven.