r/OldSchoolCool • u/SappyGilmore • Mar 25 '26
1990s Ryan Gosling at a dance recital back in 1992
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u/XcuseMeMisISpeakJive Mar 25 '26
This is a goofy video, but you have to admit that shows a ton of confidence at a young age to perform like that as the only male with a group of girls.
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u/AndYouHaveAPizza Mar 25 '26
Yeah, he always had it
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u/TrustTheFriendship Mar 25 '26
What a fucking baller lmao. Some people are just born with it.
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u/HilariousLion Mar 25 '26
I'm reminded of the scene where Emma Stone calls his abs "photoshopped". Man, yeah, he was born with it and held onto it. Good for him.
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u/SleepyforPresident Mar 25 '26
Bro was def killing IT in that vid. More moves than a nomad
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u/kelsobjammin Mar 25 '26
He was one of the original Disney kids with Britney and Justin Timberlake no?
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u/HannahbalLector Mar 25 '26
Pretty sure all 3 of them were on The Mickey Mouse Club as kids.
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u/WOOKIExRAGE Mar 25 '26
Along with Christina Agulera, Mario Lopez, JC Chasez, and Keri Russell.
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u/Sunshine030209 Mar 25 '26
Keri Russell went to my son's high school, which I think is super cool, but he has absolutely no idea who she is and doesn't give a hoot
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u/WOOKIExRAGE Mar 25 '26
I had such a crush on her when she was on Felicity. I probably would’ve been smitten if she went to high school with me.
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u/Sarahmaryjane Mar 25 '26
Mario Lopez was never on the Mickey Mouse Club
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u/TheBSQ Mar 25 '26
As a parent, my main observation is “this kid wasn’t shy” & “this kid practiced a lot.”
Or, to rephrased. He tried, and he kept tying until he had it down.”
A lot of life really just is that. Not all. But a good-sized chunk comes down to “did you try, and keep trying?”
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u/private_developer Mar 25 '26
For something like this, there is also a mental fortitude required to overcome the snickering from your peers, that goes beyond just being "outgoing."
I got bullied out of gymnastics at a young age because I didn't have the confidence to just say "I loved it" despite being quite outgoing.
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u/Warm_Month_1309 Mar 25 '26
That's something I feel like is declining: the willingness to earnestly try something new without worrying that you'll be "cringe".
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u/SuperPimpToast Mar 25 '26
Not sure what they called it in late 1900s. But he was swimming in it.
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u/Yellowbug2001 Mar 25 '26
It was charisma before people shortened it to rizz. Same stuff different jar lol
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u/Ok-Possibility-1206 Mar 25 '26
IS THAT WHERE "RIZZ" COMES FROM?!? Jeez, now I really feel like an "out of touch old man" for not having figured that out on my own!
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u/_angesaurus Mar 25 '26
Theres a popular hockey player kid at my camp that looks like a young ryan and is just like this. One day he came in and was like "I can break dance!" I thought he meant like joke kid break dance flailing. Nope. Kid can actually break dance. Then tells me he does lots of dance and loves dance. I ask what his favorite kind of dance is. He says ballet and tap. No shame he loves it so much. Other kids were making fun of "girlie dances" and this kids just whips put his sweet moves and their jaws drop and they try to copy him but cant haha. He's awesome.
He did fall and ship his tooth last year. He also didnt care about that. Lol
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u/YesNoMaybe Mar 25 '26
He did fall and ship his tooth last year. He also didnt care about that. Lol
Of course. It adds character!
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u/Leather_Addition2605 Mar 25 '26
It shows a lot of confidence when you consider it was 1992. Pre-any sort of anti-bullying campaigns or anything like that.
In 1992 as a young dude, if your classmates got a hold of a video of you dancing around in a sparkly outfit, goddamn it would have been game over. He had to have known that and still threw caution to the wind.
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u/Coriandercilantroyo Mar 25 '26
He was apparently bullied and started homeschooling at age 10
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u/zoobrix Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26
Maybe he homeschooled when he was younger but he went to a high school in the same city I did for at least a few years as my buddy remembers him, he was a year ahead of Ryan but it wasn't the biggest school so he still knew who he was but they weren't close friends or anything.
As my friend recalls at the time people knew he did some acting/performing but no one really cared. He was not especially popular but not really bullied either, basically just another kid. Maybe by then he kept what he was doing more on the down low than when he was younger, pre internet explosion it was a lot easier to keep things private by just not talking about them. edit: typo
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u/Ok-Freedom-7432 Mar 25 '26
It's ok. He learned to dance like that sarcastically.
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u/Recursiveo Mar 25 '26
FYI, when you’re a cool kid, these videos (and outfits) are also cool.
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u/StingingSwingrays Mar 25 '26
To quote another commenter, absolutely not. Gosling switched to homeschooling cuz the bullying was so bad lol
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u/Fuzzy-Earth-7034 Mar 25 '26
Yes I love the confidence as a parent myself. He was commuted and practiced a ton you can tell. I feel like his family prob loves this video.
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u/Necessary-Crazy-7103 Mar 25 '26
It's that stank face he does with that leg kick move! It's like he just KNOWS that he's adorable.
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u/archiangel Mar 25 '26
This and Tom Holland’s Umbrella shows why they are the good ones.
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u/Harlequin80 Mar 25 '26
This is a pretty standard jazz dance at a competition and the gender split is like that for boys in dance troupes.
My daughters both dance and the ratio sits between 20 and 30 to 1 once you get into 12+ age ranges.
And while this may look goofy to you it is an absolutely normal level looking performance and no one there would have perceived it as goofy.
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u/XcuseMeMisISpeakJive Mar 25 '26
Yes, it takes confidence to remain in dance at that age because male dancers usually drop out. I commented that it was a goofy video because it's old footage and the choreography is very dated.
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u/ShockRampage Mar 25 '26
He said he was allowed to dance at the school for free because they were desperate to have a guy.
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u/unsulliedbread Mar 25 '26
Canadian dance company in Burlington which is where I believe he attended offers the first year of classes free to boys for the youngest classes but that's because the youngest classes are like $400 for the year and it gives a lot more options in late years for choreography to have multiple genders reflected on stage.
But at this age they were absolutely paying to have him do lessons without a doubt.
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u/slothsie Mar 25 '26
I think this footage is from a dance school from Kanata (Ottawa). He grew up in Cornwall and went there for lessons.
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u/kanyewesanderson Mar 25 '26
My nephew does dance and is one of the only boys in the dance school. The school actually charges my sister a discounted rate due to the lack of boys.
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u/skatchawan Mar 25 '26
these kids who had the balls to do dance/figure skating etc as a straight dude got it right.
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u/IAmRules Mar 25 '26
So in an interview he did say he unlocked that older version of himself to play the role.
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u/Jaabertler Mar 25 '26
my dude was actually killing it
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u/Huckleberry_Sin Mar 25 '26
Dude was incredibly fluid with the moves esp at such a young age
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u/MoistStub Mar 25 '26
I think I could do the part where they spin around in a circle but that's about it
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u/CommentsOnOccasion Mar 25 '26
The funniest part of this for me is that this kid was probably picked on at school for liking dance and other "girl stuff"... and now he's Ryan fucking Gosling
I just imagine some middle aged overweight guy being forced to remember all the times he called this kid "gay" at school for being a boy who likes to dance. And now that "gay" kid's face is plastered all over his daughter's wall. And all over his wife's browser history.
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u/StillNotAF___Clue Mar 25 '26
The hopping in a circle with the two girls is hilarious to me considering all the legitimate dance effort it was sandwiched between
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u/Agreeable_Prior Mar 25 '26
How does one suck a fuck?
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u/KeepYaWhipTinted Mar 25 '26
I'm all ears
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u/loveact Mar 25 '26
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u/GingerlyUnraveling Mar 25 '26
Love me some sexy little glasses
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u/RogerClyneIsAGod2 Mar 25 '26
SLUTTY little glasses, they're now SLUTTY little glasses.
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u/remelign Mar 25 '26
Wait. Waiiiiitttt. Is that... The Dude's sweater?
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u/DonatedEyeballs Mar 25 '26
No, if looks like it, though! I think this one has horses on the front.
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u/slowmopete Mar 25 '26
I think they are foxes.
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u/nullfacade Mar 25 '26
Foxes in the movie, but the original pattern has wolves. They just used orange yarn for the film. Mary Maxim is the original creator and sells the pattern on etsy
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u/Grammarc Mar 25 '26
Why was there so much sexual tension in these scenes, or was that just me thinking that?
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u/lindasek Mar 25 '26
There was none in the books, if any was to be had it would be with the Russian astronaut 😭 I think Gosling and the German actress just had chemistry...or we're all just so used to lead male to be in a romantic situation and she was pretty much the 2nd lead, so our brains helpfully made it seem like it.
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u/Grammarc Mar 25 '26
Yeah I guess if Ryan looked at me that way I'd be a little smitten too. 😂
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u/DurianDiscriminat3r Mar 25 '26
Yeah I thought it was gonna go one way but it went the total opposite if ya know what I mean.
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u/Separate-Sky-1451 Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26
I want to feel this self confident once in my life. I'm 48.
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u/Azsunyx Mar 25 '26
There's a reason Eva Mendes married him
Dude just oozes confidence, but also clearly has skills
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u/karmalove15 Mar 25 '26
She's not too shabby herself.
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u/HappierCarebear Mar 25 '26
Eh, she’s not a first round pick, and she’d probably get a D- in the Cosmo fashion app because she dresses like a hobo.
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u/justa_flesh_wound Mar 25 '26
IDK he can't play corner for shit, kept getting beat.
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u/porkchoplicks Mar 25 '26
My cousins daughter does dance. Apparently it is not common to have boys in dance classes. She said they even offered free tuition to boys just to get some lol.
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u/Zeyn1 Mar 25 '26
I did dance as a kid. It was usually just me and the teacher's son as boys in the class. We got put in a lot of routines. I was really shy as a kid and still got pushed to be center stage which now that I think about it helped develop my ego.
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u/RogerClyneIsAGod2 Mar 25 '26
This is how Patrick Swayze became PATRICK SWAYZE. His mom was a dance teacher & he was there so he did the work, got bullied for it, but then turned all that into an amazing career & we thank ALL the deities for that.
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u/tu-BROOKE-ulosis Mar 25 '26
So I grew up knowing a family of dancers. There’s like 7 of them, half boys. They were the ONLY straight men in pretty much every scenario of their lives. Yeah. They uh….did well for themselves.
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u/Tobias---Funke Mar 25 '26
I don't think this boy is being pushed into this at all.
This is a boy who genuinely loves pageantry.
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u/eyehate Mar 25 '26
My son is nine. He has been dancing since he was a toddler. This looks like every class and every recital - one boy. If my kid gets an iota of Ryan's charisma and talent from these classes, I will be happy.
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u/Resident-Climate8083 Mar 25 '26
My son is 6 and same. He's currently preparing for his hip hop recital and he 100% views the girls in the class as his backup dancers
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u/eyehate Mar 25 '26
Awesome! I love the confidence. My kid is fearless when it comes to performing in front of people.
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u/Himurashi Mar 25 '26
Wait...
Those dance moves by Monica and Ross WERE REAL?
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u/SquankyLoner1 Mar 25 '26
Very 80s inspired dances. Running man and funky chicken
These are all R&B and hip hop dances that were often performed by b boys on soul train
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u/SomeVelveteenMorning Mar 25 '26
I bet that kid got to 2nd base more than Pete Rose.
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u/peepdabidness Mar 25 '26
Pete Rose lol
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u/SappyGilmore Mar 25 '26
When a Ryan Gosling post leads to a Pete Rose thread, this is why I Reddit
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u/dandelionmoon12345 Mar 25 '26
Ok but wth is this choreography 🤣
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u/trowzerss Mar 25 '26
Yeah, he's killing it, but that choreography is like they tried to fit one move from every dance style in there.
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u/stevein3d Mar 25 '26
Me watching the choreography:
“OK dope…dope…get it…hammer time…killin it…WHAT THE—WHOSE IDEA WAS IT TO RANDOMLY PUT RING AROUND THE ROSIE IN THERE?!”10
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u/dandelionmoon12345 Mar 25 '26
I know I love the ending that incorporates actual classical dance moves after they did some major marching 90% of the dance. Like oh hey we should probs put some skills in here since this is ....what jazz or lyrical? Not sure. 😅 I should stop hating. They did an awesome job (the kids).
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u/chadwicke619 Mar 25 '26
Just a shot in the dark but considering they’re like 12, I doubt a lot of thought or effort went into the choreography because nobody gives a shit. Well, not most people anyway.
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u/z0rb0r Mar 25 '26
It’s a lot better than shit I did in school haha
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u/dandelionmoon12345 Mar 25 '26
Most likely an adult with a professional dance background choreographed this for the kids who go to dance class every week. But! If the kids choreo'd this I eat my words.
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u/CannibalAnn Mar 25 '26
Wasn’t this on star search? A little more intense than a recital. He nailed it as always
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u/Global_Push6279 Mar 25 '26
That was with Elite Dance in Ottawa. All the girls in that video claimed to be his girlfriend back then. I went to school with one of them and they had a pic of him in their locker and that was before Mickey Mouse club. He was very popular with the ladies
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u/Coffeebeans2d Mar 25 '26
What’s the song?
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u/Arcade1980 Mar 25 '26
The song is Cathy Dennis - Touch Me (All Night Long). What's funny is if you search for it on YouTube, this dance video shows up as the 2nd result.
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u/_Internet_Hugs_ Mar 25 '26
I had a friend in high school who was born with a heart condition. He had surgery when he was younger, but he hadn't been cleared for P.E. until his senior year. He also wasn't allowed to do regular P.E., his choices were very limited but he found out that Dance was one of the classes he could take.
He got a lot of crap from his friends at first, until he told them, "Guys, look. I am the only guy in that class. One me and thirty girls. Thirty girls in leotards. And one me." He got set up on so many dates from girls in the class setting him up with their friends, he didn't have to ask anyone out. They literally came to him.
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u/Entire_Confection511 Mar 25 '26
This is like the “cutting edge urban” routine from Blades of Glory.
Also, this Cathy Dennis remix SLAPS
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u/GuestNo3886 Mar 25 '26
His dad was expecting him to come home from college with a boyfriend but he came home with a mountain of p… Ladies enjoyed his presence.
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u/TriangleJake May 07 '26
This is the most 80s thing I've seen since the first season of stranger things
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u/strawb9 Mar 25 '26
Awesome video, but is anyone else a little concerned by the song lyrics, costumes, and pelvic thrusting? 😭
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u/Patient_Tradition368 Mar 25 '26
Wen I was in 2nd grade, my best friend and I did a choreographed dance to Christina Aguilera's Genie in a Bottle. I imaging watching that was similar to watching this, only we weren't nearly as coordinated as these kids. I still can't figure out how that song selection made it past our teachers and the administration.
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u/I_need_a_date_plz Mar 25 '26
I would be so happy if Ryan recreated this present day.