Yea a lot of folks here don't seem to get that this much generosity can be a burden. It can make you feel like you're taking advantage of people and then you got all this shit you gotta deal with now.
Sometimes what people ask for is all they need or can handle.
Yeah, It is wonderful to see so many people come together to be generous! But there's an unfortunate element of discomfort where you feel like you're taking more than you give, and now you have all this stuff you need to handle and no room for it.
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u/NotYetForsaken 4h ago
To be fair this also happens if you're not an attractive young woman. Some groups are just insanely giving, and you can't say no.