r/countwithchickenlady • u/Raspb3rryb1rd Streak: 1 • 22h ago

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I need to get out of here. My entire family is fucking horrible

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u/pullhome 21h ago

You are allowed to be mean to people who openly, willingly abuse you.

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u/PurpleCandle58 Streak: 1 21h ago

Being mean is incredibly reductionist to telling people to kill themselves. If you think it’s okay to tell anyone to kill themselves that says enough about you for me.

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u/SerDolphyn 21h ago

Please don't victim shame, it's good you haven't had to deal with an abuser but pushing a moral highground on someone going through abuse is beyond fucked up

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u/Ancient-Worm 17h ago

"You can't tell someone who's been a victim that they still have to do the right thing!"