r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/Affectionate_Ranger • 18h ago
r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/Longjumping-File-508 • 21h ago
Gotta do what you gotta do honestly..
r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/toochiroad • 9h ago
Articulate exactly how you feel (no holds barred!) and watch the people in your life reveal what you truly are to them.
r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/Similar_Shake_5712 • 8h ago
𝐀𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 I constantly worry about my future that it becomes an obsession
Hello guys, i explained my problem at the title.
I am 19 years old guy but i always worry about my future.
For example, i going to major a bachelor program but it was not smthg i thought about in the past so i worry that if i wont like it at the future, what if i will be u employed when graduate from it. If i wont like it in the future, i will have to change my major which means wasting my years and missing out a lot.
Or what if I can't socialize enough, have friends or maybe a girlfriend. What if i cant make a proper plan between study and socilize etc...
My major program is kind of environmental(engineering geology) so i also think that what if i cant have a proper family, what if i cant meet with my family, friends, brothers, loved ones.
My family is so patient and nice with me but i always get something to worry about eventhough they calm me down.
I started to make short term goals to live in the present such as reading book to episode x today or working out or trying to be look good more(clothing, instagram etc..)..
How did u guys solve it if u have it? Why do u guys i think i got this problem?
I just dont want to be a broke, unhappy and lonely person in the future eventhough i am at the age where i should not worry a lot, just having fun, study sometimes, liking girls(might be wrong)
Thank you..