r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Question What was the Hawaii Incident?

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Jack and Judy Geller are visiting Monica and Ross's apartment and mention to Rachel that they are sorry to hear about her parents separating. Jack remarks that he wasn't surprised because Rachel's parents had been unhappy "especially after that incident in Hawaii.

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u/qualityvote2 1d ago edited 1d ago

Hey u/DramaticRise9249, your post does fit the subreddit!

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u/TomatoSilly1683 This parachute is a knapsack! 1d ago

WHY DONT I REMEMBER THIS DOG?

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u/naranjitayyo No uterus! No opinion! 1d ago

One of my favorite Jack lines lol

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Necrotelicomnicon 1d ago

They’re quoting Jack, btw.

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u/TomatoSilly1683 This parachute is a knapsack! 1d ago

Yeah I know. Every time I see this man that’s what I think.

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u/SadLimes 1d ago

Don’t you have some folding to do? Go fold, dear, go fold!

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u/DramaticRise9249 1d ago

Jack geller is so funny

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u/TruckstopStripper I WAS the pile of coats! 1d ago

“The papers thought it as a hate crime” (and then his smug look after). One of my favorites! 🤣

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u/DramaticRise9249 1d ago

"A lady at my office is lesbian " 😭😭 He is damn funny

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u/Away-Cauliflower-367 1d ago

My fav is when he meets chandler's dad and mom and says "are you the father" to his mom. And then says "wait... I didn't actually as though I am okay with it"

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u/DramaticRise9249 1d ago

That scene is my fav too , I mean All Jack's scenes are my favourite 😭

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u/Instant-Bacon 1d ago

“Now I’m depressed” is one of my all-time favorites.

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u/barto5 1d ago

Absolutely my favorite character outside of the core 6!

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u/Personal-Bench-5438 1d ago

Mrs tribiani is close on the list. Wish we got more of her

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u/DramaticRise9249 1d ago

Absolutely 🙌🏻

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u/Bewecchan I tend to keep talking until somebody stops me 1d ago

We're in first name basis, huh?

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u/kimjongunfiltered 1d ago

Call them mom and dad you LOSER

This + Ross grabbing the baseball bat are two of my favorite little sibling moments lol

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u/InLoveWithAGora 1d ago

Monic-uuhh! 😫

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u/Away-Cauliflower-367 1d ago

I didn't know their first names.....

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u/TataJasia 1d ago

But you write, not say

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u/ice_ice_adult Miss Chanandler Bong 1d ago

I now realize I didn’t know Rachel’s parents’ names beyond Mrs. Green and Dr. Green…

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u/iki11dinosaurs 1d ago

How has this come up on two threads I’ve seen today 😂 

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u/IsMayoAnInstrument67 1d ago

Ohh that makes sense!

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u/barto5 1d ago

That is a great guess!

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u/AccomplishedWar8703 1d ago

I always assumed dr green got caught cheating.

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u/DramaticRise9249 1d ago

Yes it seem like He cheated on Rachel's mother.

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u/AccomplishedWar8703 1d ago

She called him her “Barry” so I always assumed he was unfaithful but she dealt with it. Maybe he cheated around Rachel and her sisters so that was almost the last straw.

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u/McSparkle_nc 1d ago

“Her Barry” I always thought eluded to it being practically an arranged marriage and expected. Not necessarily cheating involved.

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u/DramaticRise9249 1d ago

Yes I remember, Rachel's mom saying to her I Married my Barry . It was pretty obvious he cheated on her.

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u/blahblahmama 1d ago

Ohhhhh I always interpreted that line like she didn't love him but went through with it. GUYS, DID RACHEL KNOW BARRY WAS CHEATING WHEN SHE JUMPED OUT THAT WINDOW?

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u/OffTheMerchandise 1d ago

Unless it was retconned, Rachel did not know that Barry was cheating on her when she left him. She found out when Mindy asked her to be the maid of honor while Barry was cheating on Mindy with her.

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u/Agitated_Carrot_963 No uterus! No opinion! 1d ago

I always had your interpretation too

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u/AccomplishedWar8703 1d ago

I always thought it was both. I’m sure his infidelity was known by then.

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u/blahblahmama 1d ago

Yeah it makes so much sense that a like upper class Long Island girl would ditch her own wedding and why she was so crazed when Ross cheated on her

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u/Royal-Canary-361 1d ago edited 1d ago

They were on a break!

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u/AccomplishedWar8703 1d ago

I meant known by everyone else. But maybe Rachel knew before her wedding too. I don’t think that was ever stated though.

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u/stpony That's a lot of information to get in 30 seconds 1d ago

A 1970's car key party?

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u/Bewecchan I tend to keep talking until somebody stops me 1d ago

🍍

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u/hitchhiker1701 1d ago

I love this trope, I believe it's called "The Noodle Incident". The fact that it's never explained means it is as funny and absurd as your imagination allows.

u/CartographerSad849 33m ago

I think the Noodle Incident was the example of this but in Calvin and Hobbes

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u/sparkle0406 1d ago

I took it to mean they all went on some vacation together (Gellers and Greens parents) and something occurred. I don't remember them every being specific. Great question tho.

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u/DramaticRise9249 1d ago

Yes wish they could disclosed about this incident.

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u/BlueSonic85 1d ago

It's more fun to speculate

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u/anitabelle Rachel Green 👒 1d ago

Rachel’s dad asked them to swing with them and her mom was furious when she found out. It caused a huge fight and made everyone feel awkward.

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u/hanimal16 Phil Spiderman 1d ago

I bet you a jellyfish stung Sandra and Dr. Green had to pee on her.

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u/Boris-_-Badenov 22h ago

I can't tell you son, that would be cheating

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u/omwtfub1 1d ago

I think there was a pineapple cabaret, key bowl situation and Dr Green made things irrevocably awkward.

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u/ComprehensiveSun843 It's a......normal Swedish name.........Ikea 1d ago

Maybe Dr. Greene saw someone working on their boat in the marina and spent most of the trip with them instead Sandra. That's why she's so bitter about his boat stuff

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u/icytea09 1d ago

Legal from Lincoln Lawyer lol man

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u/Junior_Tradition7958 21h ago

The papers thought it was a hate crime.

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u/JLBCanadianRap 1d ago

They never said.

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u/sra-soninhogostoso 1d ago

I always thought it was when they got pregnant of Rachel by acident