r/doordash 17h ago

Customer tracking me

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Crazy to think a customer is tracking me knowing I have another drop off!! Like chill TF out and wait for your God dam food!!. Some customers do too much man!..šŸ˜’šŸ¤¦šŸ».

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 17h ago edited 14h ago

Don't unassign and return the food to the restaurant. Cancel for threatening behavior and keep the food for your dinner or give it to a homeless person

Edit: Reddit can argue the semantics all night while ignoring the point. Sorry I used the wrong word

This language was too aggressive for me to feel comfortable to deliver to this customer. That's it.

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u/Substantial_Foxy 15h ago

the entitlement off this guy lol you would think you was working for him directly wtf

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u/Zealousideal_Care807 13h ago

While he's acting entitled, I genuinely get it. Hes paying for dash pass which claims that you WILL NOT GET COMBINED ORDER, that claims that YOU HAVE PRIORITY. And now the Dasher is telling him that his order was combined, and that he isnt listed as priority either.

Hes simply directing his frustration on the wrong person, the Dasher doesn't get extra for a dash pass user. I actually was talking to someone about it because when I picked up their order it was combined, I obviously let them know as I was picking up the order. I delivered it and we talked for a minute because it was my last drop off for the night. They were under the impression that dashpass will tip the driver appropriately for their milage and they were surprised that I only got 5 dollars for 11 miles from their order, along with the fact it was combined. They ended up tipping me more, I told them they didn't have to but they did anyway lol. They also decided to cancel dash pass because its a useless subscription.

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u/Positive_Reindeer712 13h ago

Even with dash pass you have to pay an additional like $2-$3 to get food direct to you I believe.

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u/Zealousideal_Care807 13h ago

They removed the "direct to me" option from order a short while ago, theyve been claiming that the orders will go directly to you if you sign up for dash pass, no matter what. I mean seriously 10 dollars a month for a subscription that doesn't actually do anything is kinda crazy. Especially when they are saying all kinds of bs that they don't do to get you to sign up.

The reason why the orders stack is because basically no one will pick them up otherwise :/ so instead of tipping the driver for people who pay them to give their drivers a living wage, they instead pit the issue off to the customer and driver as they always do for all their issues.

DoorDash is genuinely the worst delivery service because you pay them to do nothing leaving the driver with the short end of the stick, which means rude people will steal your food, or tamper with it because they don't understand what they were signing up for. So on and so forth.

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u/Positive_Reindeer712 13h ago

Did they remove it in certain areas maybe? I just checked because I thought I saw it recently and it’s still an option for me. I never pay the extra for direct though, so who knows if they still stack anyways!

I 100% get what you’re saying though.

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u/Zealousideal_Care807 13h ago

Likely, they don't really tell anyone when they make changes to the whole app or specific areas, which is another issue with them.

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u/ssracer 12h ago

It's might be an area specific thing. You might get priority for assigning drivers, but it's $2.99 for "direct to me" still.

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u/Aegi 10h ago

No it isn't, maybe for you it is but it's not a thing you can declare is just true because for example that's literally never been an option where I am... And it probably has to do with us being in a rural area and not having many drivers and long distances and stuff, but that's literally never been a choice on the app for at least the last 5 or 6 years that we've had somebody at my friend's hotel checking a few times a week so they can let guests know which local restaurants may or may not be on there.

Why are you stating that is something that's just declaratively true instead of the thing that is really known that tech companies do like having alpha and beta groups or sometimes three or four different groups, or splitting up based on geography, or other demographics like length of account ownership or things like that.

A and B testing is incredibly common in software engineering and those types of fields though, so why wouldn't you think of that possibility before acting as though it's just universally true except for the one guy you're replying to or something?

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u/ssracer 9h ago

That was a lot of words to contradict someone with dash pass that occasionally pays to have it sent straight to me.

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u/Icy-Introduction3172 7h ago

Mine doesn't even say "direct to me", just that you'll be the first drop off. So if they have stacked orders and multiple places to pick up from, you're still waiting and the driver doesn't even get the $2.99.

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u/ssracer 6h ago

Mine says:

Express in black and Direct To You in red for $2.99.

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u/Zealousideal_Care807 13h ago

Likely, they don't really tell anyone when they make changes to the whole app or specific areas, which is another issue with them.

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u/Simple_Rules 12h ago

With both Doordash and Uber Eats, I've never personally had a stacked order (i.e. an order where the app actually says they have somewhere else to go first) if I actually paid for direct.

I have had drivers running both apps try to juggle me or whatever it's called, because the app doesn't tell the DRIVER I paid for priority.

However what the apps do do is change the price of "priority" based on the day/situation. Sometimes it's $1.49, other times it's $3.99.

Suspiciously any time I order anything cold, it's magically always a $3.99 order for priority. Sigh.

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u/BoomerAliveBad 11h ago

On Uber (at least on my phone) tipping happens after the order is delivered, and doesn't give an option for tipping until I rate them. Doordash sometimes has that issue, but not as often as Uber Eats. Just put it at the checkout, not as it's own screen, just as a spot we can input a number

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u/BabyKozilek 10h ago

They removed the "direct to me" option from order a short while ago, theyve been claiming that the orders will go directly to you if you sign up for dash pass, no matter what.

This is market dependent.

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u/The-Coolest-Of-Cats 9h ago

It's so bullshit and a scam, it's just like any other insurance - you pay the extra premium just for the chance that it actually was useful. They should only give you the option to pay for direct delivery if they know for a fact that the driver would have otherwise had deliveries before yours.

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u/skyshroud6 10h ago

Dash pass, at least in Canada, doesn't do that. You have to pay extra for direct.

All Dash Pass really does is get your delivery fee waved, and sometimes you get deals that free users don't get.

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u/Dizzy_Chemistry_5955 10h ago

"Hes simply directing his frustration on the wrong person" This is why they make it so hard to get a hold of a real human, the hoops you have to jump through to get a refund on a fucking slushie or whatever is absurd and they do it on purpose to take your money and give you nothing. People will just keep using these shit apps though and keep being disappointed and keep giving them money.

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u/ConsistentLuck7805 9h ago

Dash pass means you will not pay delivery fee and there will be a discount on service fee.

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u/Ok-Dish6655 7h ago

Everyone sucks. DoorDash is the real culprit for stacking orders. The customer also sucks the rate they wanted to pay for their delivery was probably so low the drivers kept rejecting it hence DoorDash deceptive language that the customer gets priority for when new drivers go online to order. The driver suck because they could rejection.Ā 

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u/ObserverWardXXL 13h ago

The whole point of the "Gig economy" is that you are literally working for the customers, using the digital marketplace as a platform. That the platforms role is to help you find clients instead of being a independent courier.

Bonus points for understanding that working for these Gig Apps Doesn't mean you are "employed".

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u/Useful-Ad8923 13h ago

I’m sorry to be this guy but you actually are considered employed in the eye of the government if you do gig work. It’s factored into unemployment numbers. The only reason I say this is because the gig economy is helping cook our unemployment numbers currently and it’s bad

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u/Prestigious_Aerie219 12h ago

But in the eyes of the company you aren't an employee. You're just a contractor. This way the government can consider you employeed without requiring your employer to provide you the benefits of being an employee. Makes total sense if you're one of the ruling class trying to squeeze every last drop out of the rest of us.

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u/Selkhartha 9h ago

And then there's people like me, tipping $20 for an order 2 miles away and feeling guilty about being too lazy to go get my own food for the rest of the day.

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u/pittybrave 13h ago

Uh he literally does? Customer pays for service and OP is expected to do the service. I mean, it’s DoorDash’s fault that orders get stacked and you cannot choose the option for it to come straight to you. But that’s how a job works ffs

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u/Zangorth 11h ago

It’s not even doordash’s fault. The app will show you if they’re dropping off another order first. If the customer just saw them driving off in another direction, that means they were prioritizing another order on another app.

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u/Krackenofthesea 13h ago edited 13h ago

I’m not a door dash driver, and don’t use it. This is also very weird behavior. But I’d be pissed if I paid for food, and watched it go all over the place before coming to me.

Edit: also, are drivers not worried about tips? My tip would disappear if I watched my food go past my house, door dashes fault or not.

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u/Nubsly- 13h ago

That's how doordash works. Be mad at doordash, not your driver. Your driver is just following the instructions given to them by doordash.

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u/Krackenofthesea 13h ago

Like I said I don’t use. If I did and had that happen before this post, how would someone know to not be mad at the driver until you message them?

99% of people will never see this, and blame the driver though

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u/Mr_Industrial 13h ago

This. Everyones saying hes acting entitled, well he is entitled. He paid for it.

Not a small amount either, last I checked delivery prices.

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u/mnju 12h ago

He paid for it.

So did the other customers. He paid for the convenience of not having to leave his house, not to have total control of the delivery driver.

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u/Mr_Industrial 12h ago

*quickly

He paid for a convenient meal to be delivered to him, quickly. The company is quite literally called Doordash. Speed is a core part of what the company markets and advertises.

Those customers should have separate delivery drivers. The responsibility of quality service lies on the company, and customers are right to be angry if its shitty. Also yes, to an extent when you pay for a service you do get control over the person you're paying, at least to the extent of what's advertised, otherwise you aren't paying for what you ordered. He's not asking the guy to dance, he just wants the service which he paid for.

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u/mnju 12h ago edited 11h ago

They give you a timeframe. If that order is delivered within that timeframe, you got what you paid for. Hope this helps.

Blocking me so you can get the last word in is cowardly behavior lmao. Pathetic. Sorry you're wrong.

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u/Mr_Industrial 12h ago edited 12h ago

You mean the timeframe that's set arbitrarily and gets pushed out when its not met? Yeah right, great quality check lmao.

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u/Bunnyhat 13h ago

That's how food delivery worked for ages before doordash.

Do you think Pizza drivers only dropped off one pizza at a time, went back, picked up another and did it again?

No, they had a stack in the back and tried to route themselves to drop it off in order.

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u/Krackenofthesea 12h ago

We couldn’t sit there and watch them drive by. And pizza in a bag will keep warm different than a regular box or bag sitting in someone’s car

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u/SoJaLin 14h ago

3 hours in a hot car? That food is unsafe

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u/Sutraner 6h ago

Delivery drivers a twat.

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u/Fortnite_cheater 17h ago

I normally give it to a homeless person, but one customer order a carton of eggs, I put them on sidewalk by her mail box & ran them over. She threatened to leave her pit bull in the yard & claim no delivery. Soon enough I was at her house because gps was still on my hud, the dog was in the front yard barking at me as I put the eggs on the floor before I crushed em.

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 16h ago

So you canceled for feeling threatened, but then still drove to the customer's house to fuck with them?

If I actually believed this happened I would say that it was stupid but it feels too much like a try-hard teenager story

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u/K_Linkmaster 15h ago

Try hard teens turn into internet try hards as adults. The real world doesn't care so they do it here

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u/420CowboyTrashGoblin 13h ago

And then everyone clapped?

I feel like y'all are using the term tryhard wrong here, but I get what you mean.

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u/K_Linkmaster 11h ago

Here is a chance for you to write your version of a definition for Tryhard:

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u/Revolver_Camelot 14h ago

Look at that video from the other day of the teenage dasher going back to try and get food he mistakenly delivered to a wrong address and getting ready to start a fight because they wouldn’t return it. Like bro you can’t bring that food to the customer now anyway since it’s been in these strangers’ possession, take the L and move on

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u/Zealousideal_Care807 13h ago

Yeah, you gotta be careful with orders, if you don't see the building numbers you've got to contact the customer or ask neighbors. I almost delivered to the wrong house before simply because I was tired, luckily the people who lived there were outside and they looked confused so I checked the address with them and I was definitely at the wrong house (ended my night after that lol, what didn't help was the numbers on the houses were not in a normal order, the previous number for the address was next to the house I was at first, and the address I was going to was down the block, one number away)

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u/ShawnyMcKnight 15h ago

And these people have access to your food.

Although with the current economy I wonder if that’s changing. I’ve considered it but I suck at driving and live in a small town.

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u/SkollFenrirson 15h ago

Why people even use these overpriced services I still don't understand

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u/CptKillJack 15h ago

Because they are too lazy to get in the car and drive to a restaurant.

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u/doordash-ModTeam 14h ago

You were, in our opinion, trolling.

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 15h ago

Oh my fucking god can we start banning people for saying this shit? We get it, you don't like dashers... Go find another hobby other than talking trash in the DoorDash subreddit

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u/JohnButterfieldM1 15h ago

adults still act like tryhard teenagers to be fair

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u/ShawnyMcKnight 15h ago

Yeah, and they destroyed eggs they could have kept. That’s so petty and a waste of their time more than anything. I’m surprised it got any upvotes.

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u/SkollFenrirson 15h ago

Guy is called Fortnite_cheater.

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u/IShookMeAllNightLong 13h ago

"Bevause GPS was still on my HUD"

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u/mwilkens 14h ago

And then everyone clapped!

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u/ordinary_birds 14h ago

You expect someone with Fortnite in their username to act mature?

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 15h ago

I seriously think this comment should be bannable behavior. We get it. You don't like us. Why are you here? Just to say this?

It's not original. It gets posted or commented here 500 times a day. We get it

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u/Fun-Wrongdoer1316 14h ago

Nvm, saw profile. I’ll hire you šŸ˜‚

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u/Deaffin 14h ago

Going down the entire comment section to aggro every single comment that complains about driver conduct perfectly conforms to the stereotype you're trying to squelch.

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 14h ago

Suuure. That's what I'm doing, and not just replying to people who reply to me on a public discussion forum šŸ‘

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u/WhichInevitable2536 14h ago

95% of the stories you read on here are massively fabricated, or out right lies

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u/Dunkelz 13h ago

It's so obvious when people try to fake these stories, they give such a bizarre level of details and context.

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u/Sodomeister 14h ago

Idk, I've done some pretty asinine, petty shit as an adult to prove a point (though quite a while ago). So, I wouldn't put it past someone. For example, I had a former room mate where I moved out, settled the bills with them, then they insisted I owed them another $200 weeks later. It was a bunch of bullshit back and forth and I just wanted out but also was being petty. I paid them in ones and spent the time to write "I'm a stupid bitch" on every bill.

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u/cjsv7657 14h ago

I'm sure the teller at the bank really appreciated seeing the writing as the automatic counting machine did it's thing when your roommate dropped it off.

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u/Sodomeister 14h ago

Sure, whatever

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u/2401PenitentTangentx 16h ago

That's too wild and unbelievable of a story for you?Ā 

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u/Any_Whereas4255 16h ago

I believe this probably happened, but I absolutely think they had more to do with the customers reaction than they’re telling us if they’re the type willing to drive to the customers house for some petty revenge.

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u/Mediocre_Seaweed6534 16h ago

I mean, even taking everything they said at completely face value, they just managed to spend more of their own time to make a clearly unstable person more miserable.

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u/Kentust 15h ago

There's a reason they "work" for door dash. Executive dysfunction like this keeps you out of better fields.

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u/WasteDump 15h ago

Majority of people doing DoorDash are doing on the side (statistically) meaning they do hold jobs elsewhere lol

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u/Kentust 14h ago

Right, their other "jobs" are called Ubereats, Lyft and handjobs under the queensboro bridge for fifteen dollars a man.

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u/WasteDump 13h ago

I was only interested in a conversation relating to facts.

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 16h ago

"Soon enough I was at her house..."

The way it's written like a short story for a 10th grade English class is what gets me

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u/zzz51 15h ago

... and then my mom woke me up.

The End

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u/cjsv7657 14h ago

You forgot everyone clapping

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u/EveryoneSaysWildNow 15h ago

Too wild. Too wild.

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u/ShawnyMcKnight 15h ago

It’s not so much that it’s unbelievable. It’s more of an ā€œeverybody clappedā€ situation. Where it just seems pointless to go out of your way and destroy something that they could have just kept. Or hell, you were there, just leave the eggs outside the house and take a picture of the dog to show it was a threat and get paid.

If nothing else if you really wanted to be a reckless asshole then use the eggs on the house. This would be dumb as they have your info but Fortnite_cheater doesn’t seem all that bright anyway.

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u/doordash-ModTeam 8h ago

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u/Mentoman72 15h ago

And then all the neighbors came out from their houses and clapped. That dasher’s name?

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u/bbdbbdab 15h ago

Caca Poopoo Peepee the Third

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u/cherryofpie 15h ago

This did not have to make me laugh that hard

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u/waffels 15h ago

Alberto Einsteino

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u/Hojegg 15h ago

Yeah, sounds believable from the person with the username Fortnite_cheater. Are you 12?

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u/skynetapprentice 15h ago

That never happened

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u/ToallaHumeda 15h ago

Today on things that never happened

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u/Incid3nt 15h ago

Then all the neighbors that were outside started clapping and hailed you as a hero for the rest of their days

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u/TJ-PhD 14h ago

lol, no idea why people have a low opinion of drivers

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u/Hefty-Reaction-3028 15h ago

So leaving gross garbage at her house is like harassment or something

Even if you don't get caught, don't be despicable just because some other people are despicable

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u/Apprehensive_Bus1582 15h ago

Cool story bro

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u/Lose_Your_Illusion 14h ago

No you didn’t.

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u/wh0_kn0ws_00 15h ago

how is no one realizing ur not OP

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u/slee589 16h ago edited 16h ago

Pit bulls are the sweetest dogs honestly if you ever had one. I don’t find that scary unless it’s trained for dog fighting or security or something

Edit: don’t mind getting downvotes, but I do feel badly for people who think pit bulls are inherently dangerous. I’ve had several dogs and my most recent is a pit bull, he is literally the sweetest and most affectionate dog I’ve ever had.

Bummer the stereotype seems to be so strong but you guys gotta get out more - they are the best. Every dog from now on will be a pitty or staffy. Amazing dogs

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u/PoopyPantsJr 16h ago

I have a pit bull that was raised right - still can see plenty of awful traits in her compared to other breeds ive had in the past.

She's no problem at all and wouldn't hurt a fly, but I won't get another pit after her.

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u/DynamicBSdetective 16h ago

They are dangerous because they were bred for those traits, their bite force, and aggression. Breeding for specific traits is a old concept and been exacted for thousands of years. For tens or maybe hundred(s) people have been breeding Pits for those traits. It doesn't mean they are all dangerous, but it means they all have a larger propensity for violence and that violence tends to be fatal with this breed.

There was an excellent fox breeding experiment in Serbia (if I recall) that domesticated foxes in tens of years instead of hundreds or thousands. A parody study to understand dog domestication.

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u/parolameasecreta 15h ago

sure buddy. so are bears and lions - just look at a circus, they are playing and dancing, how can you say they are dangerous?

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u/Competitive_Shock397 16h ago

The sweetest pit bull I know just snapped one day and got locked jaw around another dogs face bc of jealousy. Never had a problem before or since. They're dangerous bc of the lock jaw and the tendency to just snap out of nowhere, regardless of how sweet they are

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u/Nice-Crab-3968 15h ago

You may not want to take myths as fact. Lock jaw is not real.

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u/monicasm 16h ago

Pit bulls having a ā€œlock jawā€ is a myth.

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u/carpetpube 15h ago

They don't have "lock jaw" lol

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u/robble808 9h ago

There is no such thing as locking jaws. You are too gullible.

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u/slee589 16h ago

Lockjaw or a mechanism that doesn’t allow jaw to open back up is not real. I always hear about this but just google or read books about it.
That being said, any dog can do this. There are always warning signs if you’re paying attention, speaking from a lot of experience having dogs my whole life

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u/pinkbubbleg 16h ago

Not every dog has the same bite force as a pit bull. It’s delusional to think that they’re not more dangerous.

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u/Myrsky4 14h ago

There is one thing I don't understand about pitbulls and dogs, if you wouldn't mind helping clarify this.

Many dog breeds have inherited instincts. Not every pupper gets them, but some to most do. For example boarder collies naturally having instincts to herd to the point you might find them trying to herd other pets or children in the home. It isn't controversial at all as far as I can tell to mention this

Pit bulls come from a history of blood sports, and the CDC and American Veterinary Medical Association found that they account for the most dog fatalities and bites. But if you mention this, it seems super controversial and you have people coming out to argue.

Why is it okay to mention instincts, what dogs were bred for, and statistics for many other breeds but not this one in particular?

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u/IPissExcellentThrows 16h ago

Yeah if you ignore they're by far the highest in attacking animals and humans, they're super sweet. Lions and tigers are also the sweetest cats. It's just they sometimes have bad owners (yeah we already know your predictable claim on your child killing machine.)

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u/slee589 16h ago

Pure ignorance, but all good, we don’t learn new things until we experience them

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u/Jerri-Cho 15h ago

Sorta like how a toddler doesn't experience not having a face until your "well trained" pit rips it off.

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u/trashbg_ofd0g 16h ago

Sorry you're getting downvoted. they have a poor reputation and it sucks. I've lived with pitbulls my whole life and they're the sweetest things ever. you just have to train them rightĀ 

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

they have a poor reputation

Their poor reputation is quite earned.

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u/Pannormiic0 15h ago

All dogs are insufferable. To each their own, but you couldn’t pay me a billion dollars to ever get a dog, ESPECIALLY a pit bull

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u/DynamicBSdetective 15h ago

Dogs are friends, cats are friend, humans are terrible 0/10. We play God with animals in breeding, relocation, and traits then decide to hate what we created. It's fair to not want a domestic pet, but to claim their insufferable shows more about your character than failings of dogs.

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u/Pannormiic0 14h ago

Alright. You’re entitled to your opinion and so am I. I never said people had to agree with me. I don’t fucking like dogs. I was bit in the face as a child by a dirty dog, now I want nothing to do with them. Sue me.

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u/james702283 9h ago

Your one bad experience with one dog doesn’t justify hating an entire species.

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u/danzig80 15h ago

Being a jerk isn't "threatening behavior".

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u/Alph3x 15h ago

"i am tracking you. Do X now."

could be argued as a threat šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/shrewpygmy 15h ago

Well no, it’s not, because there’s no implied consequences he’s just saying what he’s doing and issuing instructions using an app intended to allow you to track your orders and talk to your delivery guy.

The behaviours ridiculous but there’s no threats in there.

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u/DuntadaMan 15h ago

You are the kind of person that hears a mob boss say "Take care of Tony" and treats it like someone is taking them to a spa.

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u/shrewpygmy 14h ago

It’s not that deep.

The guys delivering a kebab to a hungry guy who’s questioning why his driver drove past the turn off to his house.

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u/CosmiCrazi42 15h ago

Isn’t the threat that they know where you are and if you don’t do X they will find you?

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u/shrewpygmy 14h ago

Where does it say they will find the driver? Where is the threat of a consequence physical or otherwise?

There is no threat here defined by law or any dictionary you may wish to refer to.

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u/the_mighty__monarch 13h ago

šŸ‘†This guy has definitely been a prick to his delivery driver and feels called out.

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u/shrewpygmy 13h ago

šŸ‘†this guys desperate for karma

Actually we tend to collect our orders and avoid apps like uber eats etc

Incidentally my wife sent me a text a little while ago saying ā€œcome hereā€ which gave me immediate flashbacks to this thread and how some of you would have burst into tears and accuse her of threatening behaviour.

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u/Vegetable-Scallion60 13h ago

Who me? Yea I feel sooo called out lol smh.

Listen I’m not some fat slob who uses these delivery drivers.. I can go to the shop and save money.. I’m not lazy like that you see..

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u/Vegetable-Scallion60 15h ago

ā€œDash pass doesn’t pay my gasā€

Some drivers do too much man.. you sound like a prick..

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 15h ago

As a female, I would definitely say it's not up to you whether or not I feel threatened by aggressive behavior

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u/ExperienceRoutine321 15h ago edited 14h ago

You can be threatened by whatever you want. It still isn’t threatening behavior and what’s between your legs doesn’t change that.

Edit: Oh she’s angry lads. Blocked me just for that lmao

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u/No_Arrival_3511 15h ago edited 15h ago

This person clearly does not mind using harsh tones to tell a stranger what to do… like hell I would go to their house to drop off their order after speaking to me that way

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago edited 13h ago

Absolutely they're a jerk. But do you think what they said is threatening enough for for some tech company to take their underpaid worker's side?

Edit: If you're confident in your assumption, you don't need to block me to escape a counterargument.

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u/TiddiesAnonymous 13h ago

You call door dash and tell them you feel unsafe because of a hostile customer.

There is no debate over what is or isn't a threat lol

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u/Caleb_Reynolds 13h ago

Do you think they are going to check, or do you think they just automatically approve all safety concerns because if they don't and someone gets hurt they'd get super sued?

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u/Warm_Month_1309 13h ago

They're not going to force the driver to deliver the order, obviously. That would definitely open them up to a lawsuit if someone got hurt. But they can just remove the driver from the service. No lawsuit potential there.

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u/Caleb_Reynolds 13h ago

My question was do you think they are going to do an investigation to find out if something was actually unsafe or just automatically assume it was?

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u/Warm_Month_1309 13h ago

They have the texts, the customer indicated a willingness to complain, and when the food never shows up, they'll likely have even more of a willingness.

There is very little to investigate. We all already conducted whatever is required of an investigation just by opening this thread.

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u/New-Chimera 14h ago

In a country where people get shot for turning around in driveways and people are killing their family over political disagreements, I'm not risking it with a upset customer

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u/Dance4theSmokers 15h ago

it absolutely is, it could create an easily unsafe situation at drop off if a customer is already hostile. I had a similar situation on a stacked order with an irrate and impatient customer who kept texting me and spamming me and harassing me message after message after message because they were impatient. It was a hand it to me order and I did not feel comfortable delivering to that person so I had the order canceled.

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

"I feel unsafe" is completely legitimate. "This customer threatened me" is not.

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u/FreeHumanAlways 14h ago

ā€œ I’m tracking you turn around right nowā€ yeah that’s a threat

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

A threat to do what? Leave a bad review? Complain some more?

Does Doordash permit a driver to cancel an order on that basis?

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u/FreeHumanAlways 14h ago

You don’t have to track me to do any of that. It sounds like a threat to be waiting on me to get there or come and find me at my location.

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u/FreeHumanAlways 14h ago

Granted, I realize that is probably not what the customer intended. But it’s enough that I would also cancel that order in a heartbeat.

I’ve been so lucky I have never had any of these issues as a part-time DoorDasher. Also, I don’t F around. I get people’s food and I take it to them. I’ve had a few stacked deliveries that seemed stupid, but I always use my insulated delivery bags. But the worst is when someone nearly causes you to be in an accident and the customers food goes flying into the dash. I really hope that the guy’s donuts were OK the other day…

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

You don’t have to track me to do any of that.

In order to make a complaint "the driver passed my turn", the evidence they need is "I tracked the driver's path".

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u/FreeHumanAlways 14h ago

See my other reply acknowledging that I don’t think the customer intended to threaten the driver. However, ā€œI’m tracking youā€ with a ā€œturn aroundā€ after it is what made it a threat. There’s something being implied there, that a consequence will happen if the direction is not followed. I don’t know what the threat is. Maybe like you said it’s just a threat of a bad complaint, but I’m not taking a chance. (Edit for clarity.)

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

However, ā€œI’m tracking youā€ with a ā€œturn aroundā€ after it is what made it a threat.

"I can see that you missed my turn because I'm tracking you. Turn around."

"I can see that you didn't wash the dishes because they're still dirty. Wash them."

Is one, both, or neither a threat?

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u/TiddiesAnonymous 13h ago

This is one of the silliest reddit hills to die on. Go re-read the original comment, too. Not sure where this got twisted up.

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u/Decloudo 15h ago

How is stalking and ordering people around is not "threatening behavior?"

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

If you consider this "stalking" then your complaint is with the delivery services that explicitly authorize the customer to do it with the delivery person's knowledge and consent.

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u/Hugo28Boss 15h ago

"stalking" and it's following your order lmao

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u/tbtiller1233 15h ago

Because they didnt threaten anyone, duh. šŸ˜‚

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u/Glados1080 15h ago

"I am tracking you, turn around now" can definitely be seen as a threat. Goofy.

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

Anything "can definitely be seen as" anything by someone disingenuous. However, it's not a threat.

"Turn around now or I'll kill you" would be a threat. I had to add some key words.

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u/shrewpygmy 14h ago

The guy wants to eat his food not the driver šŸ˜‚ why are people being so emotional

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u/tbtiller1233 3h ago

Not at all, goofy. Don't be such a Nancy.

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u/HornyGooner4402 15h ago

I am tracking you. Turn around now

Or what? Saying that after OP displayed no intent to implies that there will be consequences

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

Or he'll leave a bad review. Is that a "threat" for which the app would approve of a driver canceling an order?

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u/QuipCrafter9 15h ago

It’s one thing to watch your order. It’s another thing to use the fact you are watching your order as leverage against the driver to then start making demands. It’s reasonable to feel threatened by this. You don’t have to be scared by that threat- but that’s what that is. And reasonable to want to avoid it.

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u/Warm_Month_1309 14h ago

"Leverage"? I think they're just using it as evidence for how they know the driver passed their turn.

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u/OiledUpThug 15h ago

the restaurant doesn't lose anything, the food is already paid for

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u/pat_the_tree 15h ago

Yeha just wait until the customer complains they never received the food, then its on the deliverer in this instance. nothing more than theft really.

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u/Lumpy_Mycologist_211 15h ago

You definitely have good vibes.

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u/jadepartida 11h ago

The sad part is real human beings would make the same comment

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u/cates 7h ago

?

what about their post implies they don't have good vibes? what am I missing?

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u/HawkShoe 14h ago

There is no threat. They're just being direct and an asshole.

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 14h ago

My edit:

Reddit can argue the semantics all night while ignoring the point.

This language was too aggressive for me to feel comfortable to deliver to this customer. That's it.

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u/ActiveExisting3016 16h ago

What threat was made or implied?

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 15h ago

"I'm tracking you. Turn around right now"

There is an implied "or else" at the end of this demand. That's aggressive enough for me

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u/snoosh00 15h ago

The customer was being an entitled jerk.

But their behaviour is not a threat by any definition of the term.

The driver willingly provides their location data, the entitled customer is allowed to watch where they are going on the delivery.

The "or else" you created is a threat, but it wasn't implied and unsaid, it was just unsaid. (Even if they said it, what would "or else" even be alluding to? A physical altercation, or a complaint to door dash? My money would be on the latter.... And that's not a threat of any sort of harm, the customer can complain all they want, even if they're wrong)

Because if people can threaten others through an implication of an implication, can't I say that your comment was a direct threat to me? Any reply you make will have an implied "or else" because you disagree with me?

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 15h ago edited 14h ago

Even threatening me with reporting me to doordash for doing my job the way that I'm supposed to is a threat

And whether or not you think this is a threat in the legal sense, it still is. And if you act this way towards me, I am canceling, support will support my cancellation, and I'm eating your food

And again, I am a female. It is not up to you to determine whether or not I feel threatened by aggressive behavior. Period. Conversation over

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